Topic: Why R and why do ?'s!!!
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Sun 12/02/07 06:00 PM

Current mood: annoyed
Category: Life


1. Why are ladies attracted to buttholes?

2. Why do ladies say they want a nice guy and then always turn them down?

3. Why do women let men treat them like ****?

4. Why are men that treat women really bad, are looked at like gods by women but then the women say they hate them?

5. Why do women hate buttholes and then love them too?

6. Why do nice guys always get treated like they don't exist and they are right in front of you?

7. Why are nice guys so scarcely heard of when they are so many around?

8. Why do women want to share their butthole guy than rather have their own nice guy?

9. Why are women so gullable to the assholes even when their are other people including their friends telling them he is an ass?

10. Why do buttholes get to cheat over and over on their women and the women just keep going back to them to be used by them?

11. Why are people so affraid of the ones that truely love them?

12. Why do the nice sweet girls always go for the loser types?

13. Why do the nice respectable guys that treat a women with admiration and true respect get put in the friend zone faster than you can say Yee Haa?

14. Why are women so drastically trying to ruin their own lives by dating these assholes and then wonder why their life sucks?

15. Why are women consider sluts if they have sex with more than one man but if a man does it they are treated as experienced?



Many of these questions have either happened to me or some of my friends. I wrote this because I have a friend going thru some of these questions right now.

I know that being the bad boy attracts women but in the long run they are never going to satisfy what s women is truely wanting. There will never be love in that relationship but there will be lust. Lust will never conquer all but true love will.

So I am asking you all to think very hard with your hearts and not your hormones.

Men don't treat women like they are a rented movie that you can just take back and get a new one or rerent it.

Ladies don't settle for the macho asshole that treats you like a rented movie that can be so easily taken back to the store.

Also men don't treat women like they are property but more like they are part of you, this way you will treat her the way you would treat yourself.

Women if a man wont let you have friends, buys you a cell phone to check the bill for strange numbers, keeps track of your every move and has his friends check up on you; then he is a controlling asshole, he may not be violent now but give him time he will.

A man should never be like this but also to keep jealousy away tell your man how much you love them show, them when your leaving, kiss them hug them let them know they are the only one for you.

Men do the same kiss them hug them surprise them with something special, a gift, a meal, a romantice dinner or even just a women movie they will love, let them know they are the only thing that keeps you alive.

If people would stop trying to use each other and instead do everything in their power to make each other happy the whole world would be a much better place.

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Sun 12/02/07 06:06 PM
because the buttholes don't act like buttholes in the beginning...they wait til you're hooked....to bring out the butthole

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Sun 12/02/07 06:07 PM
all very valid questions Chef. I have often wondered most of these myself.

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Sun 12/02/07 07:04 PM

13. Why do the nice respectable guys that treat a women with admiration and true respect get put in the friend zone faster than you can say Yee Haa?

This is because oftentimes these nice guys don't know how to respect themselves.

You are speaking of two extremes, Chef: 1) the "butthole" and 2) the nice guy.

Women want a happy medium: someone who is an alpha male but still treats everyone as he would like to be treated.

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Sun 12/02/07 07:10 PM
If people would stop trying to use each other and instead do everything in their power to make each other happy the whole world would be a much better place.

:heart: I firmly agree with this statement!!!!

If WE as a people lose our respect and desire to help a fellow human being,,,then WE our NOTHING more than animals our selves!

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Sun 12/02/07 07:16 PM
Edited by ChefSean on Sun 12/02/07 07:28 PM
Ok um so what your saying is there is a medium between good and evil. LOL Yeah ok. That is like saying you can have ice and fire at the same time and same place if you put them together you get a big puddle of water. Not cold nor hot not even warm but just wet. What I am trying to say is you act like being a nice guy mean you a wimp or you must be a nerd or something. LOL Ok first of all I used to be a bad boy. I was a huge player. When I got married I realized how bad I treated women and couldn't believe how I treated them. So I vowed I would never treat a women like that ever again. I became the total opposite of what I was. Oh and I did try the middle of the fence too it doesn't work you either lean one way or the other not right in the middle. But I tell you what I have thought about being that asshole guy again.

One more thing Someone else said that assholes treat them nice and then start treating them bad. So your saying that good guys treat them good and because they treat them good they shouldn't have a chance. Oh and I disagree with that statement totally. If you find a guy for instance in a lingerie store buying lingerie and you give him your number. did you think he came there just for you. lol Well I have a theory the reason why women choose the bad guy over the good guys is the sense of thrill. It's like having sex when your 15 or so trying not to get caught. Sex is more thrilling when there is a sense of excitement. I honestly think these women look for misery to make them happy.

13. Why do the nice respectable guys that treat a women with admiration and true respect get put in the friend zone faster than you can say Yee Haa?

This is because oftentimes these nice guys don't know how to respect themselves.

You are speaking of two extremes, Chef: 1) the "butthole" and 2) the nice guy.

Women want a happy medium: someone who is an alpha male but still treats everyone as he would like to be treated.

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Sun 12/02/07 07:26 PM
Edited by wouldee on Sun 12/02/07 07:29 PM
perhaps if you didn't feel the hunger and thirst for the women you do not have and yet want, you may find the peace to see the one for you.

You don't know. I don't know, no one knows when that will occur, if at all.

Clear the mind, settle the heart, and live well.


try some of this.

much love.



smokin drinker bigsmile

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Mon 12/03/07 11:28 AM
ok thank of this good guy butthole thing like this ok. your a good guy over hear his a butthole lil boy ok? now your both the same gender being a male ok. now does the butthole boy become not a good guy but a an ok guy that is good but can still be a butthole thats the one the woman wants. not the boy by him self with just being a butthole and not just the good in the good guy, now you know

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Mon 12/03/07 04:53 PM


13. Why do the nice respectable guys that treat a women with admiration and true respect get put in the friend zone faster than you can say Yee Haa?

This is because oftentimes these nice guys don't know how to respect themselves.

You are speaking of two extremes, Chef: 1) the "butthole" and 2) the nice guy.

Women want a happy medium: someone who is an alpha male but still treats everyone as he would like to be treated.


If you act like a door mat you will get treated like a doormat, and if you repeatedlty get treated the same exact way, it's your fault not the people you are with, it is your choice in mates that is dysfunctional, which is pretty much defined in a low self esteem and self worth. You can't possibly love anyone else until you love yourself. How's that for years of therapy? Well not professional therapy, but maybe therapy in the form of life lessons......

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Mon 12/03/07 05:03 PM

If you act like a door mat you will get treated like a doormat, and if you repeatedlty get treated the same exact way, it's your fault not the people you are with, it is your choice in mates that is dysfunctional, which is pretty much defined in a low self esteem and self worth. You can't possibly love anyone else until you love yourself. How's that for years of therapy? Well not professional therapy, but maybe therapy in the form of life lessons......

yeah that's what ive been sayin lol

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