NERDS ROCK!!!!

Hey, be proud of who you are. The whole nerd, geek, dweeb etc are usually labels applied to the kids in highschool who study for their exams, are interested in science or tech, and maybe they weren't athletically gifted. Sure sometimes we might have envied the jocks who got the women, went to the parties and seemed to have fun, but I'd be willing to bet that they in turn envied our academic success and the respect that other adults might have given us. It's a perception thing, grass greener on the other side and all.

Perception is funny, in Japan it's often the students who do really well in class who pick on the students who don't. Strange huh?

Intelligent women tend to like intelligent guys who can actually comprehend what they say without resorting to such witty repartee as Nice ass honey. The women who think about more than just Prada handbags and Gucci shades (the adult version of the jock/cheerleader stereotype) and who think about the world around them, art, literature, witty banter those are the ones who need a man who can relate and talk to them on that level.

Be proud of yourself, but don't ever be a doormat. Don't assume you'll never get another chance so you stick with a girl who doesn't treat you right. If a girl doesn't like you, you can't be nice to her until she does. It doesn't work that way. Be nice but don't value yourself less than her, don't be needy, don't "stalk", don't be dependent. Women want men who they can also lean on not who only lean on them. There are other ways to attract than to be sycophantic, use humor, read a lot of jokes so you can tell them off the cuff, maybe work out a little so you're in good shape, learn skills that sets you apart. Go out thinking to yourself that you're a MAN who deserves things and the confidence will start to come to you.

As my Dad used to say: "Be nice to nerds, they'll be your boss someday!"

id date a nerd no one even emails me just kidding , well they do

I'm with you. My last date was with the cable guy who came to install the box. And that's only 'cause he showed up at my door! Figured it was fate or something!!

a date? what's a date?

I think it's a fruit originating from the middle east region. Pretty tasty I must say.

you are funny geek..

Are nerds and gamers the same thing??

no, everybody plays games nowadays. A lot of guys play madden football. Nerds are usually the ones playing RPGs and stuff like that.

Someone said that there was no such thing as a "cool nerd". I beg to differ, that's exactly how I'd describe myself.

Nerdy guys can be jerks too. I have a taste for them myself and I have found that they have just as many issues as the so called cool guys do. So I do not discriminate, men are men.

Yup. If you are playing MASS EFFECT right now, then you are a nerd.

OK! there are enough gurls answering here,
So All you nerds send a note to all these nerdettes & see what happens!!!
You can do it!! Put your game on hold for 2 minutes!

Goof I'm really not humpin your leg!

Oh good. I was beginning to wonder what that was, and....wait...if you are not doing it, then who is?

I meant cuz I was posting after you!!

& I dunno!! I don't want to look either!!

Well, you still are posting after me, so I think you are humping my leg.

Okay...well, lets be honest..not all nerds or geeks have huge hearts and are perfect...my last serious relationship(my son's dad) is a total geek.

I mean, this kid was arrested for hacking into NASA when he was 14 and chips video game systems and the whole bit.. and he was the biggest a**hole that I have ever been involved with. Eventually, he left me for some snaggle-toothed girl who was barely legal...

I usually only date geeks and leave it up to me to find the one that is a complete jerk...all I want is someone witty, gives me my fair turn with the gaming and someone that knows how to rub my back....are any of you guys willing? I know...sharing the controller is alot to ask for in a relationship, but we all make sacrifices...haha

Only if I'm following you to more than one thread!!! So there! it's not me!!