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Topic: Why Are People Based On Their Weight?
unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Sun 12/02/07 02:11 PM
Hey iam4u...isn't it funny how something as little as weight gets people going?? In all reality, just eat a salad instead of that Big Mac...geesh!! I tell you, I am having a hell of a time maintaining my weight loss...but I have to keep dieting all the time....its a life change!! I lost the 125 pounds and I will not put it back on. If I gain a pound you won't hear me bytch about it, you will see me eating less and walking more!! ITS REALLY EASY TO FIGURE OUT!!!

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 12/02/07 02:12 PM
Question: why is it okay for a man (or a woman for that matter) to prefer fat women but not okay for a man to prefer thin women? Well its because we live in a fucked up society now. You have to be "politically correct", no one can get thier feelings hurt. Did you hear about one school made the kids stop playing tag, because certain kids got thier feelings hurt when no one wanted to tag them!!?? Oh yes, fucked up to the point of insanity! Trying to please all of the people all of the time. Guess what folks ... THAT'S IMPOSSIBLE! IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! DEAL WITH REAL LIFE!!! Now with that out of the way. Gustave, get naked and sit on my lap, I'll guess your weight for you! Lets have some fun and not get too serious folks!

Whitewolf87 Joined Mon 10/22/07 Posts: 15	Sun 12/02/07 02:13 PM Edited by Whitewolf87 on Sun 12/02/07 02:18 PM
Question: why is it okay for a man (or a woman for that matter) to prefer fat women but not okay for a man to prefer thin women? AMEN! Look everyone, I don't offer a universal solution, but I liked this response best ^^^ People are people, and will forever be people. It is in no way wrong for someone to prefer to date skinnier people over heavier people, just as it isn't wrong for someone to prefer a non-smoker over a smoker. If you don't like people judging you because of your weight, either fix it or get really think skin. I won't go into my reasoning behind being attracted to a girl because it's mostly subconscious. There has to be a physical connection between two people for a relationship to work. Think about it for a minute: Would you rather find out ahead of time that there's nothing there, or would you rather wait and waste a couple months til you find out they're bored or unsatisfied or something?

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sun 12/02/07 02:14 PM
short, tall, thin, big, who cares...be yourself. we are all beautiful in our own ways. those who cant see it, that is who i feel pity for. i love me, just as i am...dont like it, dont look. sexy is in the attitude. i love everyone just as they are. xoxoxo if you chose to change something do it for you, not for the sake of someone else! love yourself. if you cant love yourself you cant love anyone else! LOL Madam you are so correct! I know you love yourself..I have that on video! (GREAT video by the way!)

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Sun 12/02/07 02:15 PM
....If someone's happy with the way they are they don't complain, it's the ones who really aren't but say they are cause they don't want to put in hours at the gym. hey, I'm not great, I'm just me, but I'd rather be me with hard abs and the v-shape torso and I can't get that by complaining. mmmm, love the V-shaped torso...

geektothetenth Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 880	Sun 12/02/07 02:15 PM
Hey iam4u...isn't it funny how something as little as weight gets people going?? In all reality, just eat a salad instead of that Big Mac...geesh!! I tell you, I am having a hell of a time maintaining my weight loss...but I have to keep dieting all the time....its a life change!! I lost the 125 pounds and I will not put it back on. If I gain a pound you won't hear me bytch about it, you will see me eating less and walking more!! ITS REALLY EASY TO FIGURE OUT!!! Wow congrats, that's quite an accomplishment, I would've always guessed you were thin and trim by your pic. Easy to figure out but some people want something for nothing. Can't get results if you don't put in the work.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 12/02/07 02:15 PM
I am the perfect weight for a woman 7 feet tall You are all ... we are all ... perfect in all our imperfection ... How deliciously HUMAN!!!!!!!!!! All I can say is AMEN!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sun 12/02/07 02:16 PM
i base people on the weight of there heart.!!!!!

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sun 12/02/07 02:16 PM
i believe everyone has a right to their preference. i dont think one should be rude or mean to those that dont fit in their "style" but there is absolutely nothing wrong with having preference. we all have them. so we should not sit and whine because someone doesnt like what we are, that makes us hypocritical because there are things that we/you may not find acceptable in your mate. again, love yourself...if ya cant do that no one else can either nor can you love anyone else. im a big girl...i love me...go with it. i have wonderful friends (male) who love me to death but im not their type...so be it...no problem...i dont sit and dwell on it...why should i?

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 12/02/07 02:16 PM
Question: why is it okay for a man (or a woman for that matter) to prefer fat women but not okay for a man to prefer thin women? Well its because we live in a fucked up society now. You have to be "politically correct", no one can get thier feelings hurt. Did you hear about one school made the kids stop playing tag, because certain kids got thier feelings hurt when no one wanted to tag them!!?? Oh yes, fucked up to the point of insanity! Trying to please all of the people all of the time. Guess what folks ... THAT'S IMPOSSIBLE! IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! DEAL WITH REAL LIFE!!! Now with that out of the way. Gustave, get naked and sit on my lap, I'll guess your weight for you! Lets have some fun and not get too serious folks! I think we should all be about fifty fifty on fun and serious, being splitdown the middle....lol IT HELPS TO STAY "REAL" thatway,wink,lol

geektothetenth Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 880	Sun 12/02/07 02:17 PM
....If someone's happy with the way they are they don't complain, it's the ones who really aren't but say they are cause they don't want to put in hours at the gym. hey, I'm not great, I'm just me, but I'd rather be me with hard abs and the v-shape torso and I can't get that by complaining. mmmm, love the V-shaped torso... yup, I ain't doing back rows and shrugs for my health ya know

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sun 12/02/07 02:17 PM
short, tall, thin, big, who cares...be yourself. we are all beautiful in our own ways. those who cant see it, that is who i feel pity for. i love me, just as i am...dont like it, dont look. sexy is in the attitude. i love everyone just as they are. xoxoxo if you chose to change something do it for you, not for the sake of someone else! love yourself. if you cant love yourself you cant love anyone else! LOL Madam you are so correct! I know you love yourself..I have that on video! (GREAT video by the way!) damn you...i told you not to put that on the internet...ughhhh lmao

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sun 12/02/07 02:18 PM
I am the perfect weight for a woman 7 feet tall You are all ... we are all ... perfect in all our imperfection ... How deliciously HUMAN!!!!!!!!!! All I can say is AMEN! 7' tall? holy cow....im in love...what's your shoe size hehehe im just bustin your chops xoxoxoxo

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Sun 12/02/07 02:19 PM
Thanks Geek...I have actually been big my whole life except for the last 3 1/2 years. I just got over cancer so that had a lot to do with it. I am in remission now and keeping the weight off Madam...you my friend have a great outlook on everything!! I am sure that you have inner beauty as well as outer beauty!!

Stormey Joined Thu 10/26/06 Posts: 583	Sun 12/02/07 02:19 PM
I know men tha prefer big gal's. I also know women that prefer big men. Just cuz' yer' slim doesn't mean yer' attractive to everyone. Just cuz' yer' big doesn't mean you are UNattractive to everyone. If two folks "click"... none of it amounts' to a hill of beans. There is someone out there for everyone. Jist' gotta' find 'em.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 12/02/07 02:21 PM
Great answer Seahawks, how ya been doing man..?

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sun 12/02/07 02:22 PM
i base people on the weight of there heart.!!!!! most intelligent thing ive heard yet!!!! xoxoxoxoxxo you are wonderful!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 12/02/07 02:26 PM
One thing I am also keen on is shoe size. You cannot have bigger feet than me. Just will not work, and if any of you "pc" foot lovers out there hate me for it....then piss off.

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sun 12/02/07 02:30 PM
lmao

ephraimglass Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 358	Sun 12/02/07 02:31 PM
One thing I am also keen on is shoe size. You cannot have bigger feet than me. Just will not work, and if any of you "pc" foot lovers out there hate me for it....then piss off. There's nothing PC about my love for feet. It's filthy and perverse, but I think that a lady with a nice pair of feet is sexy.