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Topic: mail from a profile with no picture
mhavic1573's photo
Sun 02/11/18 07:14 PM
It's really annoying to get mail from somebody who has no picture in his profile. I just ignore it. What do you do?


i ignore it..i don't answer since i have no idea what he looks like☺

mysticalview21's photo
Mon 02/12/18 08:59 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Mon 02/12/18 09:00 AM
I use to have a lot of male friends with no picture ...

nothing romantic ... but if the conversation is good ...
I see know problem ... friends for yrs with them...

really do miss some of them too ...
now dating ...different story ... I would like to know who I will be meeting ... as to put a face with that meet ... so as not to get stood up ... they would have a picture ... and lots of conversation first ...

newsworthy's photo
Mon 02/12/18 10:38 AM

You can't take the person seriously if they have no photo and what makes things worse is they don't even fill out any information about themselves.
No point in contacting them until they decide to just do the basics and put a picture up along with some details at least.

no photo
Mon 02/12/18 10:55 AM

In real life (bar, beach, bowling alley, fair, parade, whatever) you SEE someone and decide to go talk to them.
You don't just strike up conversations with random people behind walls. You SEE them first, then you try to get to know them.
Bingo Bango.

Online, You are not SEEING them, you are SEEING a photo that you have no idea if it is that person or someone else.

There ARE real people here looking to meet someone.
There are actual photos of those persons on their profiles.
The photo is the attention getter.
Just like in real life you SEE them first.

The person that abuses their photo are liars, plain and simple.
If you are so gullible or desperate that you fail to notice the scam, you get what you get.

Even in real life the ones that LOOK to good to be true usually are.
Online dating requires the same kind of common sense.

That being said, I have dated women without a photo and yes, they did turn out to be liars. I will not "Blind Date" again but I can and do have message conversations with women with no photos. There is no reason I can't be friendly to them. I just refuse to meet them in real life till I see them on live video.


Even when i was using foto yet nothing good came. I am not here seaching anymore but just for forum there is no need to see my foto. If i like i use if not i stay without it, is it a crime? I am a dependent woman, i work and make My money. So don't insult those without foto, is a personal choice. I don't write men to ask for a dating either if they write me i reply them accordingly or no reply

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 02/12/18 11:33 AM

On a lighter note. Does anyone remember when you could use a Cartoon Character as a photo? Some were really good, and funny!! laugh

Pity they stopped it I use to enjoy seeing them.

Sorry offtopic



jessica111998's photo
Mon 02/12/18 11:46 AM
I assume they are very shy and I try to pull them out of their box.

It seldom works out ohwell

no photo
Mon 02/12/18 12:22 PM


On a lighter note. Does anyone remember when you could use a Cartoon Character as a photo? Some were really good, and funny!! laugh

Pity they stopped it I use to enjoy seeing them.

Sorry offtopic





who and when, a cartoon caracter? I wonder why the humble men who are surposed to encourage people are the ones discouraging people. Say whatever you like.

no photo
Mon 02/12/18 12:27 PM

I assume they are very shy and I try to pull them out of their box.

It seldom works out ohwell


Thank you sister. months ago a guy contacted me here without foto on his profile, i replied him without question him meanwhile my picture was on my profile. he later set up his picture. he was real and was a nice guy. why are people judging by pictures? some of the pictures some used were taking many years back who talk about that?

Duttoneer's photo
Tue 02/13/18 01:39 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Tue 02/13/18 01:48 AM



On a lighter note. Does anyone remember when you could use a Cartoon Character as a photo? Some were really good, and funny!! laugh

Pity they stopped it I use to enjoy seeing them.

Sorry offtopic





who and when, a cartoon caracter? I wonder why the humble men who are surposed to encourage people are the ones discouraging people. Say whatever you like.



Seeing a cartoon character as a profile picture certainly made me smile, much better than the bland 'Ask me for a photo' image we see today. I don't really understand why the site decided to stop it, and that was quite a few years ago now, can't remember exactly when.
They use to permit you to use a cartoon image of your own in place of your primary picture, but the rules changed, pity in my opinion.

no photo
Tue 02/13/18 02:43 AM




On a lighter note. Does anyone remember when you could use a Cartoon Character as a photo? Some were really good, and funny!! laugh

Pity they stopped it I use to enjoy seeing them.

Sorry offtopic





who and when, a cartoon caracter? I wonder why the humble men who are surposed to encourage people are the ones discouraging people. Say whatever you like.



Seeing a cartoon character as a profile picture certainly made me smile, much better than the bland 'Ask me for a photo' image we see today. I don't really understand why the site decided to stop it, and that was quite a few years ago now, can't remember exactly when.
They use to permit you to use a cartoon image of your own in place of your primary picture, but the rules changed, pity in my opinion.



ok sir but i won't use cartoon image so i will put mine soon.:smile:

Duttoneer's photo
Tue 02/13/18 07:03 AM





On a lighter note. Does anyone remember when you could use a Cartoon Character as a photo? Some were really good, and funny!! laugh

Pity they stopped it I use to enjoy seeing them.

Sorry offtopic





who and when, a cartoon caracter? I wonder why the humble men who are surposed to encourage people are the ones discouraging people. Say whatever you like.



Seeing a cartoon character as a profile picture certainly made me smile, much better than the bland 'Ask me for a photo' image we see today. I don't really understand why the site decided to stop it, and that was quite a few years ago now, can't remember exactly when.
They use to permit you to use a cartoon image of your own in place of your primary picture, but the rules changed, pity in my opinion.



ok sir but i won't use cartoon image so i will put mine soon.:smile:


:thumbsup: flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 02/13/18 07:22 AM
i don't ever answer a message from somebody that aint got no picture

jessica111998's photo
Tue 02/13/18 08:13 AM

i don't ever answer a message from somebody that aint got no picture


Sarcasm at it's best rofl

no photo
Tue 02/13/18 08:52 AM


i don't ever answer a message from somebody that aint got no picture

Sarcasm at it's best rofl

I'm serious

no photo
Tue 02/13/18 09:23 AM






On a lighter note. Does anyone remember when you could use a Cartoon Character as a photo? Some were really good, and funny!! laugh

Pity they stopped it I use to enjoy seeing them.

Sorry offtopic





who and when, a cartoon caracter? I wonder why the humble men who are surposed to encourage people are the ones discouraging people. Say whatever you like.



Seeing a cartoon character as a profile picture certainly made me smile, much better than the bland 'Ask me for a photo' image we see today. I don't really understand why the site decided to stop it, and that was quite a few years ago now, can't remember exactly when.
They use to permit you to use a cartoon image of your own in place of your primary picture, but the rules changed, pity in my opinion.



ok sir but i won't use cartoon image so i will put mine soon.:smile:


:thumbsup: flowerforyou


Thank you very much.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 02/13/18 01:19 PM


In real life (bar, beach, bowling alley, fair, parade, whatever) you SEE someone and decide to go talk to them.
You don't just strike up conversations with random people behind walls. You SEE them first, then you try to get to know them.
Bingo Bango.

Online, You are not SEEING them, you are SEEING a photo that you have no idea if it is that person or someone else.

There ARE real people here looking to meet someone.
There are actual photos of those persons on their profiles.
The photo is the attention getter.
Just like in real life you SEE them first.

The person that abuses their photo are liars, plain and simple.
If you are so gullible or desperate that you fail to notice the scam, you get what you get.

Even in real life the ones that LOOK to good to be true usually are.
Online dating requires the same kind of common sense.

That being said, I have dated women without a photo and yes, they did turn out to be liars. I will not "Blind Date" again but I can and do have message conversations with women with no photos. There is no reason I can't be friendly to them. I just refuse to meet them in real life till I see them on live video.


Even when i was using foto yet nothing good came. I am not here seaching anymore but just for forum there is no need to see my foto. If i like i use if not i stay without it, is it a crime? I am a dependent woman, i work and make My money. So don't insult those without foto, is a personal choice. I don't write men to ask for a dating either if they write me i reply them accordingly or no reply

ummm, I didn't insult anyone?
Well, at least not intentionally.

I also mainly use M2 for forums. Personally, I use a photo because I think it is better to see the person that is commenting. Its a personal preference thing. However, I can respond to someone without a photo too. In the scope of things, photos are not really needed, merely preferred (by me) in the forums.

As for responding to messages, photos help with the personalized experience. They are not needed, merely preferred (by me). They give the illusion that the person you are responding to is a real person. It helps (me) with the conversation.

no photo
Tue 02/13/18 02:20 PM

It's really annoying to get mail from somebody who has no picture in his profile. I just ignore it. What do you do?


Well, sometimes they just don't know how to upload photos or don't want to be recognized for some reason .. fakes are usually using extremely nice pictures (selfies) of "themselves".
The problem is, when there is no profile either. Then it's probably not a real thing and I would ignore it. But you can always send a message and ask .. and see what happens.
Some girls, who had no profile nor the picture, having contacted me, turned out later to be very nice individuals .. so it's up to you - listen to yor gut drinker

no photo
Tue 02/13/18 07:22 PM
Some wish to be ignored by rhe masses until they’ve chosen the few they actually want to email them. 🤪🤟

Gs2Awesome's photo
Tue 02/13/18 07:38 PM
Doesn't bother me. Last dating site I used, she had no pic. We talked, hit it off, got her number after two hours of talking. Met up that weekend and dated for months. It only ended because life sucks some times.

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