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The only thing I truly hate in this world is getting sick and deathly smells 
Welcome to my world 
Anyway, love as such? Dunno if it exists. I stopped believing in it at least 3 years ago. Though I am open to discover this feeling again. Is that a feeling of loving someone you dont like or liking someone you want to love or loving someone you like ? Just teasing Lars dont think about this too much 
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Loving someone you don’t like .. Complicated, but not impossible. Usually we like and love. But you can also love a person, who doesn't act as you like .. sometimes .. or doesn't quite look as you would like to .. you may love his/her inner personality more than his/her visible disadvantages .. hoping that your love might change those aspects of what you do not like .. No one is perfect, and we must deal with that. Yup .. when the love hits in its unexpected ways, everything is possible, but usually we tend automatically like those people we love .. doesn't matter how imperfect He/She might be .. And i think that is one sign of true love ... acceptance of flaws and being able to be the real person you are without being judged. 
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The only thing I truly hate in this world is getting sick and deathly smells
Welcome to my world
Anyway, love as such? Dunno if it exists. I stopped believing in it at least 3 years ago. Though I am open to discover this feeling again. Is that a feeling of loving someone you dont like or liking someone you want to love or loving someone you like ? Just teasing Lars dont think about this too much
Too late, I will be thinking about this all night 
... it is the second one, I suppose 
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Ok I should learn to keep quiet when I should lol.... sleep well my friend
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Ok I should learn to keep quiet when I should lol.... sleep well my friend
It's okay. I was expecting this question anyway
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When you love someone it is not based on what they act like!
Some people don't Know what true love is. It is unconditional. Not something most can find. Online or off. |
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When you love someone it is not based on what they act like! Some people don't Know what true love is. It is unconditional. Not something most can find. Online or off. And i agree Toody  I sometimes ask myself if i have ever felt true love too
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Sometimes you can love someone but still can't live with them in a relationship because they are Not good for you!
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Sometimes you can love someone but still can't live with them in a relationship because they are Not good for you! I haven’t experienced that. Is that a sign of true love Toody? The ex husband made me feel bad about myself I decided ive had enough and left him.  if i did truly loved him i wouldve stayed?
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Sometimes you can love someone but still can't live with them in a relationship because they are Not good for you!
I haven’t experienced that. Is that a sign of true love Toody? The ex husband made me feel bad about myself I decided ive had enough and left him. if i did truly loved him i wouldve stayed?
No you didn't have to stay! You could still love him, but couldn't live with him anymore because of what he did. That is what I mean. Many couples part, but sometimes one or the other person is still in love for a long time. |
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Sometimes you can love someone but still can't live with them in a relationship because they are Not good for you!
I haven’t experienced that. Is that a sign of true love Toody? The ex husband made me feel bad about myself I decided ive had enough and left him. if i did truly loved him i wouldve stayed?
No you didn't have to stay! You could still love him, but couldn't live with him anymore because of what he did. That is what I mean. Many couples part, but sometimes one or the other person is still in love for a long time. Hhhmmm I think I understand now. I was just thinking that if we ever do fall out of love then would it still be true love maybe im just an overly unrealistic romantic gal
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Come to think of it, if we claim to have fallen in love but then fell out of it after just a short time , then it wasnt even love in the first place. If we find a replacement for the other person like only weeks after then it was not true love.
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Stop worrying and doing so much for the next person..Start thinking about doing for yourself..I have done for people my whole life and that is why I am in the situation I am in now..and I have stories for days and they're not good ones and it's all because I put others before me..Don't do it take care of yourself because in most cases in the end what you realize is all they cared about was themselves while taking advantage of your kindness.. 
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Stop worrying and doing so much for the next person..Start thinking about doing for yourself..I have done for people my whole life and that is why I am in the situation I am in now..and I have stories for days and they're not good ones and it's all because I put others before me..Don't do it take care of yourself because in most cases in the end what you realize is all they cared about was themselves while taking advantage of your kindness..
Taking note of that but if its in our nature to be kind and nice dont you think we shouldn’t change? There will still be others who can pay it forward. But then thinking this way wont help either maybe learning when we are getting taken advantaged of will help a lot?
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What is true ? What is right? What is fair? These are questions we ask ourselves in loving someone we don’t like. Loving is a choice and not liking them or what they do is part of loving. We put aside our own feelings to do what is best for them and not ourselves.... Heard from instagram. What do you guys think? Is this like the song lyric "If you can't be, with the one you love honey, love the one you're with"? |
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I don't think it's possible romantically.
Perhaps the context was in the name of humanity and altruism. Love for humankind, which would include many you don't like.
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What is true ? What is right? What is fair? These are questions we ask ourselves in loving someone we don’t like. Loving is a choice and not liking them or what they do is part of loving. We put aside our own feelings to do what is best for them and not ourselves.... Heard from instagram. What do you guys think? Is this like the song lyric "If you can't be, with the one you love honey, love the one you're with"? Whats the song title goof?
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I don't think it's possible romantically. Perhaps the context was in the name of humanity and altruism. Love for humankind, which would include many you don't like. Thank you 
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I totally get this!
I love someone that I sometimes hate! I wonder how can both of these emotions coexist in one person? But then I remember hearing someone say, "As much as you can love a person, is as much as you can hate them".....soooooo damn true! |
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As has been said, you can't love someone you don't like. Unless there's something drawing you to them, or triggering a feeling of love.
Mismatched couples exist. But generally, if you don't like someone you're probably NOT going to want them. Romantically that is. |
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