what is good blind love or blind trust.

I don't believe in both.

For me love is not blind. Love can see. Love can feel.

When you love truly, you should also learn to give your trust. When you can't trust it's better to let the person go.

Love is the best feeling and trust is the good foundation of any relationship.

Either one can set you up for a world of hurt

There is no blind love in my opinion because in the first place you saw something in the person that’s why you love him/her. Now if blind love means not being able to see bad then it is not love but obsession. Now about trust for me when combined with deep and true love can be given blindly as you should be able to give it to the person IMHO

Neither.

I want someone who KNOWS AND SEES my faults, and loves me as I am. People who love "blindly" actually only love either a fantasy that they have pasted over your image, or they love a reflection of themselves. That kind of "love" is the kind MOST likely to fail suddenly and without warning or recovery.

Real trust, never comes from blindness. It comes from self-knowledge of ones own boundaries and concerns, and the ability to see that the other person shares your values.

I suspect that the romanticized idea that true love is blind, might come from the half-way recognition that true COMMITMENT needs to be total, and be made and self-enforced regardless of what you learn about the one you have committed yourself to (within logical reason).

Well, if you ask Stevie Wonder he says both are fine.

Well, if you ask Stevie Wonder he says both are fine.

Anything from both to neither.
Depends on where you're coming from.

I mean is it being willfully blind? Choosing not to see something that is there?
Or blind because there's nothing to see? So you stop trying hard to see something that is not there?


Or is someone blind and it's kind of like a batman thing?
Where he has the bat car, the bat suit, the batarang, the bat signal, the bat cave, the bat phone?
Only a blind person has like their blind shoes, their blind house, their blind love, their blind trust?

They are both good to get you robbed blind either financially or emotionally

It depends upon how one defines it, I guess.

I think we should love people WITH all their flaws and strengths.
I dont think that is the same as staying with or putting up with people through them all.


I think we should trust people to live up to the character they show us to have. I trust someone dishonest to lie. I trust someone selfish to make selfish choices. I believe people can be trustworthy in some areas and not others. and we should trust ourselves to make those distinctions.

Neither. There is no love without trust, and trust has to be earned.

Neither

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Or viceversa

Remember, all goes through your eyes, on what you see first. It's simple rule of thumb, first you saw, then you listen

Body Language, theres also a lot of people couching for that

From:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3804545.stm


Science proves that love is blind

Do our critical facilities vanish?
Scientists have shown that there is a degree of truth in the old adage that love is blind.
They have found that feelings of love lead to a suppression of activity in the areas of the brain controlling critical thought.

It seems that once we get close to a person, the brain decides the need to assess their character and personality is reduced.

The study, by University College London, is published in NeuroImage.

The researchers found that both romantic love and maternal love produce the same effect on the brain.

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One of many research results. Interesting...
They suppress neural activity associated with critical social assessment of other people and negative emotions.

You sound great pretty....

Nice words from you dear..,

So true!

I wonder how blind trust feels like to the person being trusted and also if someone being blindly loved appreciates it? Is there such a thing as loving too much?

I don't think you can love too much.
The question to me is more to what degree is my loved based on reallity as apposed to illusion.
Love at its base is accceptance.
The closer what you are accepting is aligned to reality and your values are the determinants that dictate how well aligned your love is.
Our desire to blind ourselves to reality can have us lusting after blind love and ther are plenty of people who lust after finding those that they can generate trust in others so that they can manipulate and deceive through encouraging blind trust.
So not too much love is the problem its too much blindness imho