that are dating sites that specifically cater to BBWs...go there and pose your question about their "honesty and sincerity" and see what kind of response you get...

I will not use the word obesity because everyone is built differently. People can gain weight due to family gene also,
There people that are obese who are still more active.

Obesity? Everyone has their preferences and most men like myself loves a women with curves and more body

If you do not wish insight from other on your topic, why do you make a thread on it. What there is to to appreciate in the comment I do not understand. However I do understand that you are attracted to a certain type of woman but are afraid to trust. Honestly, trust works both ways. If you have been neglected yourself to the point of fear of trusting, then maybe time off and finding your confidence to trust again. Find your love again first. In psychology classes they cautioned on relationships and showed that taking time to heal is important. The time of the relationship maybe the time you need to heal before seeking a relationship again.