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Polite turn-aways
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Very simple, base line of it is "The interest isn't mutual." You can add a bit to it, "Thank you, you seem great, but the interest isn't mutual." Or "Thank you for the interest, but it isn't mutual." Something like that is enough. They're strangers and there's no need whatsoever to explain more than this. |
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Topic:
HOW WAS YOUR DAY?
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You always have to,can't use past experience to judge the present,you use it as a caution yes but have to still give what you've been given your best to make it last and alot better than what you had before
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Hi Justine welcome,finding someone to have that kinda relationship with isn't easy it's not impossible just nit so easy to find just have to keep searching and hoping
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Honestly hard to believe a site made to find someone,it's hard actually finding someone.
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Thank you everyone for your insight. The consensus seems clear. I will move on. Wow, online dating can be so hard. |
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Topic:
Fix ups
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^^^ Valid point! But be careful not to assume those who choose to stick to the forums haven't given those who don't participate a chance... I have multiple times, hence my choosing to remain in the forums.   Yes it is a 50/50 chance either way! Perhaps when I move back to New England this coming weekend, I will consider giving the other side a chance again. With those who are local to my area! Best of luck to you in your search, wherever that may be.   thanks and do hope it works out for you I'll be casting my net as wide as ever lol but not stressing it been here long enough to know that it's a 2% if so much chance
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Topic:
Fix ups
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^^^ Valid point! But be careful not to assume those who choose to stick to the forums haven't given those who don't participate a chance... I have multiple times, hence my choosing to remain in the forums. |
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Topic:
Fix ups
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I wonder how much of what we see has to do with our purpose in being here in the forums? If we are only here for the forums, would that make us blind to seeing the possibility of that "happily ever after" thing? ... If we are open to more happening, does that open our minds up to see the potential of "happily ever after" in others? Me personally, I am here to make friends, but I am also open to meeting that someone special. Maybe I'm weird, but I believe there are some really great men here that I would be happy to meet.... and explore the possibility of there being more. So far it's resulted in great friendships with a couple of those I have met... and though I wouldn't change that friendship for anything else in the world, to be honest, the desire for more, was there before we ever met. |
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Topic:
hearbroken
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I'm so tired of loving and finding someone. I always end up being heart broken. |
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Genuine
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I think a person has to get off the Forums for a genuine Relationship. Corresponding personnally one on one. |
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It's just human nature on both sides after a man/woman been through a few bad relationships one after the other they begin to think all are the same and instead of treating the next person they meet differently giving them a chance to prove them self separate and apart from the others they've meet they judge them before they get to prove themselves and treat them with a harsh hand
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Topic:
older men
Edited by
Pleaser4life
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Mon 08/26/19 03:28 AM
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At the end of the day it all comes down to preference cause even if a woman has a great guy or a man has an amazing woman in his life it's what they prefer you may be bafffled as to why they would want something else but when people end up with wht they want and wish for in life they tend to not be satisfied and want more a man gets the kinda woman he dreams of she may not be all round perfect but as close to as can be and he wants one younger same with a woman she gets the man that's there for her adores her and she rathers someone that's a handful has tons of drama and females calling her none stop to leave their man but thats what she wants so there is no one answer or a wrong or right answer to that question really it varies
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Only 20 pages ., thought there would me so many more  |
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I see we're looking for the same thing
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Topic:
JAMAICA
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Wouldn't give up or trade for anywhere else at all
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Topic:
Date nights
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Hear not much of that dating going on any more and so hard to find someone to chill and hang with not to invite to your house but go out hold a slice or a entire pizza or just have a drink or two and chill reason and build a vibes
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That's what should be figured out by cpls and anyone in a relationship, there's no need to put aside a day for love that should be shown everyday in the way you talk,and spend time as a cpl keeping the love alive you dont have a special day to water a plant and show it love and a relationship is like a plant needs nature and love constantly
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Topic:
BBW or SSBBW
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BBW (Big Beautiful woman) SSBBW (Super Size Big Beautiful woman)  why obesity Obesity? Everyone has their preferences and most men like myself loves a women with curves and more body |
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Topic:
where are the men 35 to 50 ?
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Lol well that's why majority of the women complain on here that the men only look at their pics and nothing else and it shows just now cause if they really took time out to examine the post and the date they'd see wat your trying to say men go through carefully before contacting or writing cause if she ask wars on my profile??many will be dumb struck
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