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| Topic: i ask too many questions on here, here's another | |
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Edited by
Gustava
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Tue 12/04/07 11:47 AM
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I was over to her house the other night and the phone rang, she let the answering machine pick up. It was a guy responding to the craigs list ad she put up (that's how we met). He said he wants to get together with her. She apologized to me, and said she thought she got rid of everyone. She asked if I was mad and I said no. I do believe she is only with me, but at some point she did want to meet up with this guy seeing she gave him her number. What should I think? Since the two of you are not in a committed relationship or even in a "real (for lack of a better word)" romantic relationship, it really doesn't matter if she is keeping her options open. In fact, if I were you, I'd be dating around myself. Personally, I don't understand why folks feel the need to become exclusive so early on in the relationship. |
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I honestly don't like dating more than one person at a time, and I don't like to be in competition with other guys
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I agree with asking what her intentions are. Well, I wouldn't put it like that. Actually what you could do is ask if she likes you as more than a friend. A guy did that to me, I thought it was kind of weird- since he had a gf- but at least he put it out there. I've been in relationships like that, where you have no idea where you stand and it's not fun. And after a month, she ought to know what she wants, or she isn't worth your time. If she just wants to be friends, and if you're okay with that, fine, but if you want more and she doesn't, it's not going to work. Trust me, I've been there.
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Wow, I read this whole thread...sounds like a show on Nickelodeon. At this point, damn it,,,I'll kiss you.
 Just get it over with already, you want a kiss, you must use your perssuasive charm to get it, if she refuses, then damn it, ask right then and there if you're EVER going to get it!!!!
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Wow, I read this whole thread...sounds like a show on Nickelodeon. At this point, damn it,,,I'll kiss you. Just get it over with already, you want a kiss, you must use your perssuasive charm to get it, if she refuses, then damn it, ask right then and there if you're EVER going to get it!!!!
That might work too. |
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Well, the way I see it, when a girl really likes a guy, she just can't wait to kiss him...or if she's never kissed b-4, she is likely to shy away in fear of not "performing to your expectation" but like I said previously, you must use your charm to lure her into "temptation" and let her know it's OK. LOL
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she has said she wanted a unicorn as a child I KNEW IT!!! "The Cube" is a pickup artist routine that doubles as a psychological personality reading that uses symbols to draw forth the subconscious. The horse represents her ideal partner, or ideal man. Saying that the horse is a unicorn says that her standards for men have been so high that she was never able to find a suitable mate...because what she's looking for does not exist. |
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she has said she wanted a unicorn as a child I KNEW IT!!! "The Cube" is a pickup artist routine that doubles as a psychological personality reading that uses symbols to draw forth the subconscious. The horse represents her ideal partner, or ideal man. Saying that the horse is a unicorn says that her standards for men have been so high that she was never able to find a suitable mate...because what she's looking for does not exist. |
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Even if she doesn't want to have sex for a long time- if ever- kissing shouldn't creep her out. Unless she's not attracted to you. I've been in that position, but me and the guy didn't last a month, I dumped him after 2 weeks. Remember communication is important in everything!
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I've been seeing a girl for almost a month now, but I have no idea what is going on. She wants me to hold her and we hold hands, but we have never kissed, she isn't even ready for a kiss yet, what's up with that i know. We aren't considered boyfriend girlfriend yet. I really like her, but I get mixed signals with her. I don't talk much, I am very quiet, that's just who I am...could that be why? DUDE WOULD YOU PLEASE MAN-UP!!!!! |
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she has said she wanted a unicorn as a child I KNEW IT!!! "The Cube" is a pickup artist routine that doubles as a psychological personality reading that uses symbols to draw forth the subconscious. The horse represents her ideal partner, or ideal man. Saying that the horse is a unicorn says that her standards for men have been so high that she was never able to find a suitable mate...because what she's looking for does not exist. Bullsh it! |
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Bullsh it! There are many things in life that most people will find difficult to believe 
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Isn't that from the Bible?
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I believe she is testing me, it seems like the longer I can wait without a kiss the more she likes me. I think she is seeing if I can hold myself back maybe to see if I am a real man maybe... I don't know.
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one word
Respect the girl space and when she ready to kiss you then you go after her |
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I agree with you on that. I'm not planning on rushing her at all, I really like this girl and I want it to work out.
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Kelly is so adorable, she doesn't even cook and she cooked me dinner tonight. Best French toast I've ever had in my life
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I believe she is testing me, it seems like the longer I can wait without a kiss the more she likes me. I think she is seeing if I can hold myself back maybe to see if I am a real man maybe... I don't know. Wow, I wish I could find a guy like that, LOL. |
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kelly and I are now exclusive, but she still won't kiss me. I asked her why tonight and she said she is a bad kisser and has bad coordination. On my way home from her house I thought to myself, does this mean I will never get a kiss out of her? I ended up calling her and I asked her about the kissing, I asked if someone in her past told her she is a bad kisser. She said yes, but also in school kids used to push her against lockers and abuse her and ask when they were going to have their way with her. She said she would talk to me more about it tomorrow.
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kelly and I are now exclusive, but she still won't kiss me. I asked her why tonight and she said she is a bad kisser and has bad coordination. On my way home from her house I thought to myself, does this mean I will never get a kiss out of her? I ended up calling her and I asked her about the kissing, I asked if someone in her past told her she is a bad kisser. She said yes, but also in school kids used to push her against lockers and abuse her and ask when they were going to have their way with her. She said she would talk to me more about it tomorrow. That's odd. Too bad about her school experience. |
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