Topic: Widowed after 50 years
felixTcat's photo
Tue 10/31/17 10:31 PM
How long do you think I should wait to date again? She wanted me to find someone again. Please, only serious and thoughtful responses

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Tue 10/31/17 10:56 PM
You took the vow and honored the vow and death did you part. Whenever you are ready is sufficient. Sorry for your loss.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 11/01/17 03:51 AM
Yeah..no rules.
When you feel ready..with a free heart.

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Wed 11/01/17 05:51 AM
felix it is really about your comfort zone. you could meet someone tomorrow the makes it feel right or it could take a while for you to be ok with the idea. so just relax and go with the flow as they say

Stu's photo
Wed 11/01/17 06:37 AM
Sorry for your loss. My dad died a week shy of their 50th anniversary. Mom will never date again, she's 80.. but when, or you feel the time is right and a good woman comes along, don't hesitate if you feel you're ready.

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 11/01/17 04:08 PM
Maybe a year then develope a friend only for a few month's !

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 11/01/17 04:08 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 11/01/17 04:12 PM
:oops. Your profile says intimate encounter:

Pepinofruit's photo
Wed 11/01/17 04:23 PM
Edited by Pepinofruit on Wed 11/01/17 04:44 PM

How long do you think I should wait to date again? She wanted me to find someone again. Please, only serious and thoughtful responses

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I will be thoughtful & serious with you.

After 50 years together she wants you out finding someone else??..Woww

Reminds me of 46 years my parents have been together,
and after my dad died, mom died a year later.
She couldn't hold alone without him.

Such long-lasting marriages have a sad ending.

I was devastated ( Don't ask ), after 17 years with my ex,
I think after 50 years I would have had a stroke
or heart-attack and sink deep...I survived that storm, I don't
take any risk or chances for another one blushing
( Not at my age anyway, I'm only 66 years young laugh almost )
Perhaps if I only find a true at heart friend first,
I may give it a second chance.
I am not an expert or giving advice/s to anyone,
but that's what I would do if I were you.

GO OUT & SOCIALISE ( A must ), KEEP STRONG and
FIND A TRUE TO HEART LADY FRIEND QUICK:thumbsup:

Take care and best of luck waving

felixTcat's photo
Thu 11/02/17 05:11 AM
Yes, I put in my resume intimate encounter. I think it is important to put your cards on the table if you want to find someone...... Just my humble opinion

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Thu 11/02/17 12:09 PM

felix it is really about your comfort zone. you could meet someone tomorrow the makes it feel right or it could take a while for you to be ok with the idea. so just relax and go with the flow as they say



:thumbsup:

Datwasntme's photo
Thu 11/02/17 02:37 PM

How long do you think I should wait to date again? She wanted me to find someone again. Please, only serious and thoughtful responses


that all depends on you
i would wait till after the morning period
and for that there is no date it very's from person to person

my take on it , if you are ready go for it
she all ready wanted you to find someone else

but again , it all depends on you
if you are ready for it, then go for it

Best wishes on your hunt : )
and my advice would be , don't look for her , cause you will never find another her .... that's the funny thing about humans we are all different

still not sure if that's good or bad
<scratches head>

mzrosie's photo
Thu 11/02/17 02:40 PM

Yes, I put in my resume intimate encounter. I think it is important to put your cards on the table if you want to find someone...... Just my humble opinion


oooh don't hold your breath on this one.