Where I work, one of the guys there had a one night stand and sure enough, the girl is pregnant. Now he runs around the shop bad mouthing her, saying how much he dislikes her, what a pain it is to be in his position. What a chicken-**** attitude. Regardless of weather he likes her or not, she is going to have his baby. They got together and now she's pregnant. All the could of, should of crap is wasted energy.

He needs to stop being a jackass and get on the phone and call her every day. Ask how she's feeling. See if she needs anything. Make sure she's eating well, getting the right exercise. Whatever it takes to help her get through the pregnancy and deliver a healthy baby. Then he's gotta be there for the baby. They don't have to live together or love each other, but that child is 100% dependent on those two for everything and all the BS between them has to stop.

Yes, I've been telling him this, but it hasn't sunken in yet. I'm going to keep at it until it does. It pisses me off that that little unborn baby has to start off life like that. Anyhow, I'll get off my soapbox now.

omg...

moral of the story:
use a condom.

Moral of the story: Don't schtuff a girl you're gonna bad mouth the next day.

I think it's more like: never bad mouth a girl you have sex with. she trusted you with her body so don't abuse your power. "Leave her better than you found her."

Applause!!!!!!!

Again Applause!!!

sounds like an extremely small minded, self indulgent man who only thinks w/ the little head. hopefully he'll get beyond that when the baby gets here but doubt it...Carol

lol its kinda funny how most women shun the pickup artist techniques but completely agree with the mature philosophies behind them

It takes 2 to tango baby......both should have been responsible but since that didnt happen......time to step up to the plate!!