Not now ... when I was younger ... but more attraction first...
once you get to know them ... you find out quickly ...that once speaking to them and a few conversation ... you can make a better realization of how you really feel...

I see it more like lotto win at first purchase ... its an ideal one gets in their heart and an intention they have at first ... that may end up panning out or may not


when it does happen to work out, I think people often describe it as 'love at first site' ,, but I honestly believe love needs time and bonding experiences to develop if it is REAL

My thoughts exactly. Lots of people experience lust or desire at first sight, or perhaps even something that could be described as "instant fantasy life at first sight." On the rare occasions when the person turns out to be close enough to what they wanted, and who want them the same way in return, they say that that proves that it was "love at first sight." And they forget, from a reasoning point of view, that a proportion of a hundred or more times when "love at first sight" fails, versus one time when it chances to work out, means that it really isn't "love" at first sight at all.

Very wise answer (((msharmony)))

Yes I met my husband like that! Problem was it didn't last long enough!

I had it once in my life. And it wasn't lusting. I've been there too. I know what that is. This person, there was an instant connection between us. It had nothing to do with sex. It was an instant mental and emotional connection. We saw each other at a level above the waist. I was married at the time. So was she. My oldest son was 2 at the time and I was trying to hold it together for him.

If I knew then what I know now, I would have gone on and left my now X wife. I didn't have that mental connection with her. No real emotional connection either. I had both with the other woman. She had no kids and was ready to leave her husband. Before it turned physical, I let her go. I had my son to think about.

That was a long time ago. I still think about it sometimes and wonder, "what if?". I guess I will never know.

hmmmmm yes i do but most times it turn out to look fake...

No, Because love is basically a mutually fulfilling bond between two people which makes them feel deeply content to be with each other, on a sustained basis. Love is all about giving, sacrificing. Mostly people are well experience here they can describe love more in depth than me.

Just advice... Focus on your future, Once you are well settled. You have a good earning. Then you should find a life partner and fall in love. Because i saw many couples who actually love each other but due to financial problems they breakup. So just sharing my thought...Good wishes

absolutely true,at first it not love but just a wonderful feeling

Actually yes. I love Shelley Duvall. She is something else.

Yes. I'm certain that it happens all the time. What do you see when you turn out the light?

Nope

Yes, I believe in love at love at first.
I also believe in fairy tales and that miracles do happen.
... and I love unicorns.

I believe there is a attraction yes. For example it was love at first sight with Cory Michael Smith. I love the way his glasses up and down in the show. And the way he laugh on Gotham. He is only man I would say love at first sight. Though I would never meet him. A person can fantastic right or daydream. But not in real life with person actually present that is feel it. I never really felt toward anyone I meet. That is nothing no big bang or anything in that regard.

Love at fist sight.. no. Attraction at first sight. ( unless of course all you love is skin)

you see someone, you are attracted to them, they are attracted to you. But it takes much much more then that to be love.

It is what is on the inside that make you fall in love, not the outside

Looks fade.. don't care who you are.. they do. then what you are on the inside is what attracted the right person in the first place. Long lasting love, regardless of looks.

If it was just based on skin.... well... not good.

nice..love u

No.. I wnt the test drive first

love at first sight is the key to a forever relationship

I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe infatuation can be confused with love, but turn into love over a period of time.

love is truly caring about someone on a deep level that happens over time, I don't think that happens in an moment of eye contact.......then again, I could be very wrong :)

Do you believe in Attraction at first sight, then YES! most look with the eyes.

But the Question is LOVE! and the Answer is YES!

The moment I laid eyes on my husband at 9 years old I fell in love.

The moment I lied eyes on my Daughter in my arms I fell in love.

The moment I lied eyes on my Son in my arms I fell in love.

The moment God gave me life he fell in love with me.

The moment my own mother gave me life she fell in love with me

the moment my father held me in his arms for the first time he was in love with me.

The moment my Grandfathers and Grandmothers held me, looked at me they fell in love with me.

the moment Gary saw me he fell head over heels for me.

so YES! I think our Eyes Tell us what we like and what we don't like.

If I was a cavewoman looking for food for my husband I would not want him to get sick so I would have had to use my eyes to find foods that would be pleasing and not be sicking.

Trust your Eyes if you don't you will end up in divorce. If you can not see the beauty in a person's eyes, not their body's but the Eyes to the soul!

even in a arranged marriage, the parents made sure that the Boy and Girl would find each other attractive, for one week they would see each other at the parent's house. they got to talk and answer questions but after that one week, they were committed to a marriage with no divorce. You make the best of it.

Only the Bible gives a man a right to divorce his wife if she is a drippy faucet. In other country's this is not allowed you it is for better or worse in sickness or health death do us apart.

Today with the Dating sites fewer Men and Women are Divorcing because the internet has created a Arranged marriage, they talk and type for months or years before they ever get married. most talk on the computer for almost 6 months and never use a cell phone for the words are more important than a voice. its the Mind that matters not the distorted sound of an electronic device that deceives the sound of people.

as for TEXT that's a no-no! that will be the biggest bust and break up that the world ever created. More fights come from TEXTING. 72% of Men has had a fight or hanged up the cell phone on a woman, while 41% was a women hanging up the cellphone. But god help the man when he got home.