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Hi skeptical 
Are you asking if a person should wait on someone for the sake of fairness, or if you should only wait on them if your intuition strongly tells you that the person will be worth the wait? hello peggy it is both. im glad i was at least making some sense in my questions 
Reading lots of good advice here
For me personally to consider someone worth the inconvenience or risk of waiting, I have to see that our feelings are MUTUAL, and perceive our connection and what he brings to my life as unique, and almost irreplaceable. Only you can guage within yourself if the person's feelings are as strong as yours, and how "irreplaceable" that person is in your heart.  peggy your irreplaceable
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Life is a book that writes itself and we never know what's going to be on the next page. I think waiting for someone you value and believe in, is worth the wait. I would follow my heart. If it says wait, I'd wait. If it says I'm not feeling valued, I believe I would move on. We don't live forever. My best to you. you would wait because you think theres a possibility or you hope things will eventually work in your favor? sometimes the heart makes us blind to reality. do you agree? Hi sceptical, My apologies for the delay. I would wait because I believe in the person and hope for an outcome that both of us wanted. Yes I do believe that the heart can blind us to reality. I waited six years for someone but the other persons fear of change, self imposed social pressure and doubt due to "blindness" of the bad things happening within her life left us best friends but without a life shared together. I guess, how long is Long Enough?, is a personal choice we each make. |
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Wed 09/27/17 02:16 AM
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Hi skeptical
Are you asking if a person should wait on someone for the sake of fairness, or if you should only wait on them if your intuition strongly tells you that the person will be worth the wait? hello peggy it is both. im glad i was at least making some sense in my questions
Reading lots of good advice here
For me personally to consider someone worth the inconvenience or risk of waiting, I have to see that our feelings are MUTUAL, and perceive our connection and what he brings to my life as unique, and almost irreplaceable. Only you can guage within yourself if the person's feelings are as strong as yours, and how "irreplaceable" that person is in your heart.
peggy your irreplaceable
thanks skeptical
Hi sceptical, My apologies for the delay. I would wait because I believe in the person and hope for an outcome that both of us wanted. Yes I do believe that the heart can blind us to reality. I waited six years for someone but the other persons fear of change, self imposed social pressure and doubt due to "blindness" of the bad things happening within her life left us best friends but without a life shared together. I guess, how long is Long Enough?, is a personal choice we each make. Thats very admirable ameer
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Life is a book that writes itself and we never know what's going to be on the next page. I think waiting for someone you value and believe in, is worth the wait. I would follow my heart. If it says wait, I'd wait. If it says I'm not feeling valued, I believe I would move on. We don't live forever. My best to you. you would wait because you think theres a possibility or you hope things will eventually work in your favor? sometimes the heart makes us blind to reality. do you agree? Hi sceptical, My apologies for the delay. I would wait because I believe in the person and hope for an outcome that both of us wanted. Yes I do believe that the heart can blind us to reality. I waited six years for someone but the other persons fear of change, self imposed social pressure and doubt due to "blindness" of the bad things happening within her life left us best friends but without a life shared together. I guess, how long is Long Enough?, is a personal choice we each make. thanks ameer .., ive just decided life is too short to wait ...i want to be happy and its starts within me not from others. this will be my work in progress ...love and happiness to all here  |
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