..so I have this situation where my ex wants me back. We're still friends but I want it too stay that way and she doesn't seem to get it.

We were together for 2 years, I was loyal and committed...but I found out she wasn't. When I broke up with her, she told me she was stupid, and she wouldn't do that again. I broke up with her because of it..and it hurt me for a long time. I lost 37 pounds
since I couldn't sleep and eat.

I've been dating another female lately, and whenever I try and get close to her...my ex gets jeolous and starts to react. I just don't know what to do anymore.

ohh, that is tough, do you still have feelings for the ex? How long has it been since ya broke up? I have been cheated on as well, and I would love to think that people change...get her to tell you everything and see if it was a one time deal, or if she has a history of cheating..or just call me, I don't cheat!!good luck

She is an EX for good reason. A FRIEND would not get in the mix of your relationships... as much as it might suck to have to get her out of your life completely, it's the BEST thing you can do.

Good Luck.

I used to have feelings for my ex ...but its more of a friendship kinda feeling now. It's been at least 1 year since we broke up..and she keeps remindin me of everything we been thru together.

hey man im in the same boat, my x did that to me too, but then took her back, then she broke u with me again, and now only a month later shes got another BF. best thin to do man, is tell her stay the hell away, avoid her at all cost. she calls u dont answer. have ur feale fiend leave a message on ur phone, when ur x calls and u dont answer sh gets here her. eventually shell get tired of tryin nd sop callin and leave u alone. if not, restraining order.lol

That's true...she tells me that I'm more than a friend too her though.

dude dont talk to her at all. im a guy, ive been theen doin that. thats the only way dont talk to her.

if she feels like a friend, she will never be anything more than a friend. I think that if you don't look at her with any kind of passion anymore..move along and tell her to do the same, rememeber it is her fault, don't give in to her guilt trips. She had a chance with you, and apparently she was an idiot, don't lower yourself to please her again.. Her loss

wow that sucks. Let me tell you from experience. I was friends with my ex husband for 6 years after we divorced and he always got jealous and wanted more again and I couldn't do it. You have to either give her another chance or stop talking to her because it only causes problems for you and the new girl unfortunately...people can't usually handle exes in a new potential significant other's life. Not only that, but of course she wants you back...SHE F-d it up and you're still friends with her...your gorgeous; find someone deserving.

look. heres an analegy or whutever. take a glass and break it. now tape it up. u still have cracks. i will neverbe as srong as it once was.

Damn bro, I've tried doing the same thing. Lol, but she keeps knocking on my door or waiting for me to come out.

woah one thing to know dont take her back because if she did it before she'll do it again because she'll think hey everytime i get caught he'll come back to me a very bad habbit and my mom does this to her ex well she did i dont know if she still does but basically what my stepdad did was told her hey were both single if you cant be happy that i found someone new then just stop talking to me, its a little harsh but it might be the only way to go.

yeah u got a crazy one. just kep pushin away eventualy shellget tired of the case, mine did

move, change your number, hairstyle, hair color, facial hair,
and plastic surgery. always make up a new name and pay in cash.

if necessary have a cache of mace and pepper spray handy!

haha, that is extreme, although he is pretty hot..I bet she is totally obsessed with him

be gentle though...
always be gentle

PEPPER SPRAY!!

hahahah. plastic surgery.

You have to move,or get a restraining order..trust me!!!

aw im sorry to hear that dearie

i think you should cut your ex from your life. she sounds like trouble.