it is very possible to scare away a guy if u show him too much interest. every guy here will disagree with me, but lemme tell ya... im tellin the truth lol

try throwin some mixed signals. every guy here knows that a girl who sends him mixed signals get a VIP reservation in their minds.

yeah very true

You've just described, to a tee, the relationship I had with a girl I work with named Kelly.

I do the same thing, saying something half to myself and half to her, it's 'fishing' darling, he's hoping if he throws the line out enough times he'll get a bite.

I would say things like 'Mental note: Doesn't like Christmas.' or give her little complements when I didn't think it would be too obvious why I was giving them. HE'S SHY! Kelly and I even formed a list of reasons why we SHOULDN'T date, and if that's not a pretext to dating, I don't know what is.

Eventually, enough of those times went by without a bite, and we both ended up with other people. I may be happy with who I'm with now, but I still regret the missed opportunities.

Hmm interesting

cute story, i hope all works out whatever ya decide.!!! cheers

love it! nice!

If he is into you, he will ask you out.

SOooo I think he is into me...

I asked him if he wanted me to come back after work, like to hang out. He does the overnight shift at the house we caregive for. And they have no problems with people coming to hang out.

And he seemed stoked on the idea.

After we hung out for a while, we decided to watch a movie, so I sat in pretty much the only chair at the time, well there was another chair but no one wants to sit in it, and one of the clients was taking up the entire couch. And he was like "where am I supposed to sit?" and I told him there was room with me. (and this is a tiny chair)

So he finished doing whatever he had to do for the day, for his shift, and then he came back and was like, do you really think we both can fit on that chair. And well we both sat in the chair.

Then after a couple hours, we held hands and I dunno.. it was cool. Then we got a little too close, and we kissed and stuff.. but then we were like okay thats a bad idea. Since we were at work.

We hung out a bit more then when I left, he told me he wants to hang out, outside of work.

So since we both seemed pretty shy, I have no idea where this is going. But it was sure fun

Yall held hands? He kissed you?
Yeah, he hates you. There's no way he's interested.

honey..all he wants is a bj in the parking lot....geeez

Ahhhhhh....my work here is done.

Congrats, sounds like you made the first step. You can take the rest from here, make sure I get an invite to the wedding.

I dont know about any wedding lol but we had another really awesome night together :)

I was kidding bout the wedding, but generally speaking, two shy people who start off with a long song and dance around and towards each other do make fanastic couples. Wierd, but true.

Find out what his favorite fast food is, bring it to him at work sometime. A simple gesture that yields wonderful results.

fast food? gross :p

I was thinking of home baked cookies lol

actually i think we're going to hang out tonight outside of work. Which I'm excited about.

Why must he jump your bones at the drop of the hat. Maybe he has more substance then that. Maybe he is cautious because he does like you a lot and doesn't want to screw it up. It's easy to hit up on girls when your just looking to get laid or put another notch on the old head board, but to connect on a higher level, just like good cookin, takes time...
Hang in there and give it time.

so we had plans to hang out today and he just never called. He texted me at noon that we were on for 7, and then when it was around that time I texted him to find out what we were gunna do but never got a response. It's kind of strange. He doesn't seem like the type of guy to blow off someone, especially since we are coworkers. Very weird. I'm kind of worried. I hope it was nothing serious. Maybe a lost cell phone or something.

wow that sucks, however somthings arnt ment to be rushed and after all think of the positive!