Topic: encouragement
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Wed 07/05/17 10:09 PM

mingles2 is truly a rough place. i met friends talk with them then their deactivated never to hear from them again try 8 months of texting phone talking and mingles2 then no response when i tried to contact them.
many people say what they are but really are not. looking for a soulmate , looking for a partner, they keep looking but love is more of a feeling that you cannot be without that person in your life very very difficult to do that over cyber space.
don't be discouraged just pull your socks up and keep going.

thanks ill wear my knee high socks and my pyjamas and roll up my sleeves again...:thumbsup:

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Wed 07/05/17 10:11 PM
Edited by matrueyear on Wed 07/05/17 10:12 PM



wait light hearted...that one i would have to work on. my heart has been way to heavy lately lol

That is easy to fix, take a break ! ;)


ok copy that ill go get a kit kat too winking:thumbsup:

Or post more intriguing topics ;)

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Wed 07/05/17 10:14 PM


NO flirting needed here ok shades


No flirting? Well, that leave me out. grumble

this is for you davidflowerforyou


And one for you in return. flowerforyou

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Wed 07/05/17 10:18 PM




wait light hearted...that one i would have to work on. my heart has been way to heavy lately lol

That is easy to fix, take a break ! ;)


ok copy that ill go get a kit kat too winking:thumbsup:

Or post more intriguing topics ;)

i promise i will lol

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Wed 07/05/17 10:19 PM



NO flirting needed here ok shades


No flirting? Well, that leave me out. grumble

this is for you davidflowerforyou


And one for you in return. flowerforyou

thank you David:angel:

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Wed 07/05/17 10:22 PM
Scepticalsoulmate you are beautiful, smart witty fun. The list goes on.
Don't let others plant the seeds of self doubt. You are an amazing person.
I'm not sure what happened in mingle (because I'm usually the most clueless person), and I'm not asking.
What i will say is don't let your confidence or self worth be guided by external influence or opinion.
Focus on living life. Enjoy. Indulge yourself. Be happy.
When you're ready, be open to possibilities and you just might be surprised when you least expect it.
flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 07/05/17 10:28 PM

Scepticalsoulmate you are beautiful, smart witty fun. The list goes on.
Don't let others plant the seeds of self doubt. You are an amazing person.
I'm not sure what happened in mingle (because I'm usually the most clueless person), and I'm not asking.
What i will say is don't let your confidence or self worth be guided by external influence or opinion.
Focus on living life. Enjoy. Indulge yourself. Be happy.
When you're ready, be open to possibilities and you just might be surprised when you least expect it.
flowerforyou flowerforyou

thank you so much ana your words truly mean so much .. i will heed your advice and look forward to possibilities . flowerforyou

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Wed 07/05/17 10:30 PM


Scepticalsoulmate you are beautiful, smart witty fun. The list goes on.
Don't let others plant the seeds of self doubt. You are an amazing person.
I'm not sure what happened in mingle (because I'm usually the most clueless person), and I'm not asking.
What i will say is don't let your confidence or self worth be guided by external influence or opinion.
Focus on living life. Enjoy. Indulge yourself. Be happy.
When you're ready, be open to possibilities and you just might be surprised when you least expect it.
flowerforyou flowerforyou

thank you so much ana your words truly mean so much .. i will heed your advice and look forward to possibilities . flowerforyou

flowers

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Wed 07/05/17 10:30 PM

Smile though your heart is breaking ... It is always hard when you fall for someone and it doesn't turn out how you expect .. .. spend time laughing with friends .. it is the best remedy .. there are always new men popping up ever day .. I am sure someone will grab your attention .. In the meantime .. you can keep the mingle men in line laugh laugh laugh smooched :heart: waving

expected no less from my dearest blondeylove you are one of the reasons i smile here...in truly appreciate you dear thank youflowerforyou

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Wed 07/05/17 11:59 PM
people need other people thank you all for reaching out to me and giving me that push in the right direction. i hope that someday i can do the same for you guys. :angel: encouragement can only come from others now its time to fuel more of that courage :thumbsup:

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Fri 07/07/17 12:14 AM
I agree with the suggestion, you should take a break.

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Fri 07/07/17 01:31 AM
Idk idc don't have any confidence myself...still, let me try~

1) live for yourself,love yourself..the world is sheet(replace e's with I), all humans except you are morons.
2) our existence in the universe is insignificant...from dust to dust~
3)never think/care about others~


As for changing glasses stuff....hmm....idk why don't u try half frame glasses/ rimless ones.....and give a cold look as if you're gonna burn someone just by looking.... it'll kinda give u a sacred charm prolly~

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Fri 07/07/17 01:41 AM

Idk idc don't have any confidence myself...still, let me try~

1) live for yourself,love yourself..the world is sheet(replace e's with I), all humans except you are morons.
2) our existence in the universe is insignificant...from dust to dust~
3)never think/care about others~


As for changing glasses stuff....hmm....idk why don't u try half frame glasses/ rimless ones.....and give a cold look as if you're gonna burn someone just by looking.... it'll kinda give u a sacred charm prolly~

most unique advice here...sacred charm with a cold look that could burn think very intriguing and quite the challenge there nick...maybe you could send me the link? tongue2 thanks

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Fri 07/07/17 01:45 AM

I agree with the suggestion, you should take a break.

i will do that i already started deactivating but reactivating lol maybe its a start? slaphead

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Fri 07/07/17 02:03 AM
I'm sorry can't find a link for that look...but these are some

https://goo.gl/images/RfCVCC
http://img.kpopmap.com/2016/01/seulgi-cold-warm-beauty-elsa-anna.jpg

And the closest pic...but he's a guy...my fav guy though
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/C177nF-UoAANsXt.jpg

Cold beauty just means a person who looks like nothing in this world matters to him/her...as if you are above all that is mundane~

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Fri 07/07/17 01:58 PM
Of course I have no idea what happened to you.
And, I am the new guy in Forums. Years spent on Mingle ditching the scammer "girls" that show up.

You have been all over this place and then....just a day or so ago....Gone.
Then I made comment of you being gone and you answered...You are here.

Seems you are on the "Fence" deciding what/where to go.

When things aren't working out for me and I have tried modifications to still be at Big Brick Wall.....Time to move on.

If you did leave Mingle you would be greatly missed....I know that.

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Fri 07/07/17 02:29 PM
Ah scepticalsoulmate,
What a tangled web we weave for ourselves.

You can't find confidence in another. You must find it within yourself.
The first step is to truly see yourself as you are, not as you wish.
Once you meet yourself and start understanding yourself you can start loving yourself. After all, it is always you.

Once you start to love yourself as you are you will find that what others think of you just isn't as important as it once was. Sure, you still want to fit in but you won't be forcing yourself to live up to others expectations of who you should be. You will live up to your own expectations and that can be down right easy. Because they are your expectations.

People tend to over analyze, over compensate and put merit on things that shouldn't really matter. Find what is important to you and work on that, no matter what anyone else tells you. Its your life.

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Fri 07/07/17 02:39 PM
Oh, that's just typical , so I'll be the only afib here? rant
Get your meds checked, and tell them how your feeling, they may need changing flowerforyou

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Fri 07/07/17 07:59 PM



People tend to over analyze, over compensate and put merit on things that shouldn't really matter. Find what is important to you and work on that, no matter what anyone else tells you. Its your life.
not on mingle surely laugh laugh laugh ok maybe one or two go a bit overboard .. but perhaps they really do know it all :angel: waving

surprised

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Fri 07/07/17 08:58 PM
Edited by Tom4Uhere on Fri 07/07/17 08:58 PM



People tend to over analyze, over compensate and put merit on things that shouldn't really matter. Find what is important to you and work on that, no matter what anyone else tells you. Its your life.
not on mingle surely laugh laugh laugh ok maybe one or two go a bit overboard .. but perhaps they really do know it all :angel: waving

See, that's the thing. We all know it all as it pertains to us. It doesn't mean we have it all figured out, but, we seem to get by somehow?

LOL - Edit to fix my spelling dweeb moment.