How should someone take a message from someone else that says they are not good looking enough to be on this site? Any suggestions?

um, fishing for compliments maybe? low self esteem, maybe they got their heart stomped on and just need a little time to let it heal.

Laugh at them.

hmm maybe..but I thought it was quite rude of someone to do that!

If they are telling you that, blow them off w/that DELETE button.
They are a very rude person & shouldn't be here, due to a TOTAL LACK of manners & class.
Welcome to the family.

as a reason to believe that they are not sure of their own intentions.

Suggestion being that entertaining that person's attentions has come into your lap. Act on it as you will.

It is. But then if they don't know a person, don't take the time to know a person they may be the one losing out. Laugh at their stupidity.

thank you very much...and I did use that special button called delete! I don't know how some people function in society with total lack of manners,and class..it just blows my mind.

Tell them: beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and if they get to be so lucky as to be held as beautiful....keep their mouth shut before the run the other person off with their lousy personality!!

Welcome to the site!

humm well if they sent you that messages myself I would tell them to find another site for those that are shallow minded if they can find one they will fit into. That is very rude and un called for what to one is good looking is not always to the next.


Myself I don't know anyone that is so far up in looks that they were made judge and jury of what looks good to the next person.

Shhhhhsss blow off the low lifes and join in the forums with the real people here.

By the way welcome to the site.

very well put eileena....




I love these forums...always something interesting to read and talk about at any given time..not to mention the people are very nice!

give me their mailing address.

i will either beat them up personally or send a ninja through the postal service, depending on shipping charges.

Hmm..wonder what shipping charges would be...lol

Try and be a friend to them. They could be hurting for various reasons.

Negative people feed off others energy like a leech. Cut them off and they just find another host.

Fess up slacker.

Sorry, I misunderstood what was said originally and had thought the person who contacted you was stating that they weren't good looking enough to be on here. If anyone insults someone for being on here, clean their clock. Big time. I've gotten into with rude people in chats before and they don't like it very well.

I'd say "mans rules" try and hurt a lady and get your' A$$ pounded. I don't like to be that way, but that is an unwritten rule. Men protect the women, not hurt them. Pretty basic.

If someone doesn't have any influence on your life... they aren't your friend, relative, coworker, etc etc than who cares what they think?
I don't care what anyone thinks of me anyway but ESPECIALLY if that person has NO bearing on my life whatsoever.
Don't pay it any attention, blow it off, move on and love yourself.

There's only one cure to that:
Swift kick to the pants party in the downstairs. Comon, it's not like he'll really need that equipment with that attitude. Besides, if by some accident he does get lucky, you don't want him reproducing mini-ass offspring :P

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person thinks is ugly another thinks is beautiful.
This site is open to all. Don't pay the ignornant any attention.