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I just feel out of place here now, since I came back after eye surgery the site seem to have just changed so much it does not come close to being what it was when I left. am not deactivating just yet but am going to look for another place where I feel like I fit in.
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wat are u tlaking about , the site doesnt change lol there just new people
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Don't give up on JSH stick around have fun.
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I know how you feel. I was gone for a very short time recently. I came back and felt strange. Different, somehow.
I don't want to move on. I am trying to stick it out. There are people on here that I just love. Stick around. Give it more of a chance. Kat |
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stay on for awhile what makes this site is the people
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stick around.... we're all livin and changing... but we need each other to stay sane!!!!!
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YES I agree that the people who use to give substance and talk
here alot..Their not here, much...and the age of the members have really dropped. Alot of 18 to 25 year olds... So I can see where you feel the change here... |
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It's better... because I'm here now.
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yeah how can u leave hulk hogan is here to lol jk, i am 4 u
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Edited by
KalamazooGuy87
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Fri 11/23/07 10:35 PM
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50 year marriage, i congratulate you on that
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i agree widow, in the last month, so many people have deactivated, it is not the same. I have almost all new friends, but they are good people too!
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am not sure I am leaving yet but am looking around for another place where the croud is a bit more mature. all these younguns speak a diffirent language, just leaves me hanging not sure what they are saying is it a compliment or an insult. half of the time I don't have a clue.
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Well if you feel that way, i take it your more status quo?
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Hey Widower, You still have a place here man.
But there is alot missing in TOPIC'S to even discuss much..lol There are alot of newbees and they are all just trying to find their FIT, then it will become more layed back, I HOPE? lol |
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am not sure I am leaving yet but am looking around for another place where the croud is a bit more mature. all these younguns speak a diffirent language, just leaves me hanging not sure what they are saying is it a compliment or an insult. half of the time I don't have a clue. Start your own threads... things you want to discuss... |
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what types of things do you wanna talk about? we can help you get the conversations back in the right direction!
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Widower, I completey understand what you are saying....and it isn't a bad thing to have younger people here IF they have respect and maturity. I have run across some who can't discuss anything other than drugs and partying, sexual desperation, F-bombs, and slang....They bash the people who first came here and helped build JSH and they try to run us out. I dealt with a very intense crapload the other night. I don't think we should leave, rather I think it should be our goal to "tame the attitudes" and reset the boundaries. We need to take JSH back and restore it to it's former glory. I am doing this and hope you'll all join me.........
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Oh hey now... c'mon :(
Change isn't always a bad thing ya know. |
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I know how you feel widower... Change is enetable...
When I first came here- I joined during a time when a whole other group was coming in. Felt lost for awhile- then started fitting in adventually. I have seen alot of change and fluctuations in here- but we survive them. There are still great people here... I hope you stick it out while serching around. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ NOW WHERE ARE ALL OF YOU??? (Singing the song- "lonely... I'm so lonely...") |
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Edited by
TxsGal3333
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Sat 11/24/07 11:14 AM
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humm well I have been here shortly after this site started. Changed yeah it has changed a lot since the beginnning but......... as the world turns so do others opinions and thoughts we can't stay back in the cave man age. We must learn to move on and change and if it is not what we think is proper then guess what it is up to those of us to make things right not run and let it go. For running away in life never solved anything. Unless that is the way you have always solved things by running away.
Life is meant to grow and change so what there are younger ones coming in my my were do you think they will learn from hummmmmm there elders and well if we run off, what does that show them. Awwwwwww that is the way you should do things as well. Well since the first of this month I have not been on as much due to Pheunomia and Acute Bronchitis and yes in that short time I have notice changes but you either come back enjoy your friends and either change there way or comprise and meet in the middle or just pack up whine and leave. Not that is shows the new members that the old ones needed to stay but it was there time to leave. My self I chose to stay, why you see I have been talking more with those in there 30's and have been amazed at the knowledge they know. And have learned so much from them. WE are never to old to learn and move on in life. So either if one leaves or stays one must learn to adapt to the every changing world and the things within or retire and give up. We all have the choice. Maybe just maybe you will start to see life in a differnt way and listen to those that are younger there is so much to learn from them as there is so much we can teach them as well. See I have found out that they enjoy talking to us as much as we do with them. So instead of complaing what once was, can still be if one really trys just with and added flair of moving forward.!!!! TO LEARNING TILL THE DAY WE DIE TO MUCH KNOWLEDGE TO PUSH LIFE ASIDE.!!! |
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