Topic: WHY
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Fri 11/23/07 09:16 PM
why is it that you care for someone so much and they did something to hurt you so you broke up with them but you still have feelings for them and wish you could have them back in your life? why cant you just move on after they hurt you so bad?

Totage's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:18 PM
You can, it just takes time.

bearfan385's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:18 PM
2 words: emotional attachments

Its hard to move on. I've had enough happen to me I know what hurt is like but its better if you move on, get a hobby and try to not think about it.

urdream's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:19 PM
you can move on but it will take time

s1owhand's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:19 PM
pride. foolish pride. it is such a waste of time when
the one who will really care for you and turn your
world upside down may be right around the corner. let
her go and go and get the real her.

:wink:

Angelsing's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:27 PM
One day you will realize that some people just don't deserve your love. And once you realize that, you will be very careful about who you give it to.

Loradel's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:28 PM
I know what your talking about. I am currently going through it now. It hurts like hell and it is so hard!

JoeKur's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:28 PM
Give it time, man... it'll be alright... just doesn't seem like it right now...


bearfan385's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:29 PM

I know what your talking about. I am currently going through it now. It hurts like hell and it is so hard!


I agree Lora. Welcome to JSH. Enjoy the forums, make new friends and most of all have fun and enjoy yourself! flowerforyou

jneal07's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:40 PM
Its because that person had your heart! and it sucks when its broke! i have just gotten over my ex, we are still good friends and its better that way!! but it took me a long time to get over, let time take its place!! and you could also look for other women to date, that will help you get over that person better!! flowerforyou

thunderbear1967's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:40 PM
you never stop loving somebody you just start loving somebody else

bearfan385's photo
Fri 11/23/07 09:43 PM

you never stop loving somebody you just start loving somebody else


I have to agree whole heartedly. flowerforyou

thunderbear1967's photo
Fri 11/23/07 10:02 PM
Thank you, Im going through the same thing here, If i try to say i dont love her anymore i know its a lie, So I know i will allways love her and care about her, But i also know I'm going to love and care for someone else.

bearfan385's photo
Fri 11/23/07 10:03 PM
Im in the same situation thunder.

mild_intensity's photo
Fri 11/23/07 10:05 PM

why is it that you care for someone so much and they did something to hurt you so you broke up with them but you still have feelings for them and wish you could have them back in your life? why cant you just move on after they hurt you so bad?

dude idk but i jus wana slap my bff sumtimes...she puts up w.2 much crap...

taylorfan's photo
Fri 11/23/07 10:10 PM
come on pull it together man!!

Deana64's photo
Sat 11/24/07 01:51 PM
time heals

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 11/24/07 02:01 PM

why is it that you care for someone so much and they did something to hurt you so you broke up with them but you still have feelings for them and wish you could have them back in your life? why cant you just move on after they hurt you so bad?



B/c its one of the first steps of letting go.

At first you always feel emptiness, like your heart was ripped out of ur chest. Then the realization kicks in to what just happened. The next thing you know you're done balling your eyes out, you straighten up ur stance, and say "hey, I'm still breathing" and you decide that your worth being good to. Noone deserves to be treated like they dont' matter, its so much better to be single than with someone who's constantly testing your trust.

RaceryChyck's photo
Sat 11/24/07 03:30 PM
I know the feeling and I am trying to move on but my ex makes it super hard. We have a son who is almost 5 months old and he hurt me pretty bad. I still love him and care for him very much but just can't handle to emotional abuse anymore.. He is mad at me right now cuz I am going to go meet someone tonight..