Everything was goin great then bam! Get a phone call saying lets just be
freinds. She will never tell me why she did it says I didn't do anything
wrong. I just want to know why and probably will never get it.

She might have found someone else and believe telling you that would be
worst than saying just be friends...may not be the case, but something
to think about...or she just might not have felt the same way as you,
but I believe she would have told you this...clare

hmmm that does make a pt... the person she was seein she broke up with 2
weeks later. she is with somone right now and is still holding on and is
tryin to make me not see the person im seein now

women, we will wonder the rest of our lives?

She sounds like a jumper...which is someone who jumps from person to
person, and if she has feelings for a person that makes her jump she
will always jump back. She just needs a place to land and chances are
she will jump back to you...but you need to stand aside and let her
land. Then you will be free to enjoy life, so let her fall and move
on...you can always live with someone else...Clare

see i get that but she will never admit she has feelings any more for
me. I have point blank asked her. She must think im stupid or somtin. i
can see shit clearly as far as what she is doin. I didnt know suposedly
just looking out from u was trying everything possible to keep me from
seeing the perso iam now. She even pulled the line of your not seeing or
talking to her over my dead body. She is one crazy indiviual.

She sounds crazy psycho to me.

Trust me from experience... EMOTIONALLY MOVE ON while you still can and
let her be man.

Find a woman who will treat you right. Don't stick to an unhealthy
scenario such as this. Just Move On man!!

There's plenty of lady fish in the sea and soon. ONE you will catch will
be that special one who will love ya for life! ^_^

Go out and have a great time it's saturday man. Get those spirits hoppy
hop and flirt with some hot looking women in your area and you will
forget all about the crap you go threw now.

She moved on... NOW YOUUUU... move on with your life and find somebody
else who will treat you like gold bra.

The Chiz Man!!

Thanks chrisma good advie man just got in from work. Was goin to go and
do somthin but she wont pick up her dam cell phone! Women and cells
phones never will get it.... I do need to move on

Hey five speed-
Just from a womans perspective (my two cents)
Sometimes women get scared- and when things get too close and she feels
maybe alittle too much, It can get scary. Sometimes we get afraid of
being hurt. So we sabatoge the realtionship and move on. At least the
break up is on our terms. Doesnt seem to hurt so bad that way.
I speak including myself because I have done this in the past
out of fear. I dont know if this is the case but it is something to
think about.
Im sorry she broke up with you.Its always confusing and Iam4u is right
-you will always wonder about women just like we wonder about men.

thanks for the advice. and there will always be the line of who is right
and who is more complicated. The kind of funny thing is everyones advice
can somhow fit into a strong possibility of what she did

just got out of a relationship simular to that. everything was going
fine I thought, until one day she just walked out said she would be back
with her boyfriend to get her things. the next day she arrived with the
biggeast meanest woman, I have ever had the misfortune to meet. she
introduced her as the boyfriend. suddenly our two years togeather
without a fight or anything was down the drain.

Everything happens for a reason maybe you are meant to meet the love of
your life and couldnt being stuck with the one u had

my ex husband tells me the same thing. It hurts though. I still wonder
what I did that was so bad.

But now after seeing what he went to I realize it is his lose not mine.
I just don't understand him still wanting intamacy from me and kisses.
It makes me nausious. So I decided to move on and leave him in the
dust!!

I agree she might feel that the walls are closing from a bad
relationship and things are going too fast so she put on brakes and put
an end to you and her altogether just my train of advice.

from the day she moved in, it was something of a mystery trying to
figure her out. we had a understanding that I would never go into her
room. but three or four times a week she would come into my room. remove
whatever she was wearing and get into the bed, did just about anything
you could think of. after that she would always say now I want you to...
for the most part I did the cooking and everything else, nearly
everytime she would say you are going to make some woman a good husband.
she was even talking about marriage. Iwas all for it. not sure what went
wrong.

damm-it WIDOWER YOU GO!!!!!!

I JUST SEEN YA AGE ON PRO. AND, HEY YOU SIR ARE A HELL OF A GUY?

I try to take care of myself. usually walk about five miles a day, plus
doing any number of things to try and stay fit. right now I feel better
than I did at fifty.

I HOPE GOD BLESSES ME WITH THAT SAME POWER?

Hey, five! People who move from relationship to relationship in such a
manic way aren't loking for love. In fact, I sincerely doubt they are
able to grasp the cokncept of love and committment. Usually these are
very insecure people who missed out on something somewhere early in
life. She isn't going to be good for anyone until she gets deals with
her issues from lthe inside out. She will play you and play you....not
to hurt YOU, but to boost her ego knowing she is someone who is wanted.
Do you know much about her background? It's like living on a
merry-go-round that doesn't let you off when you are about to puke.