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Topic: why do men?
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Wed 08/23/06 07:45 PM
like to come all over a womans face?

men?

fatboyriderky's photo
Wed 08/23/06 07:49 PM
Actually I don't. I like coming on a womans back if doing Doggie style.
But thats it.

drshadowj's photo
Wed 08/23/06 08:01 PM
As you know from my profile, I am a Medical Doctor. I have practiced
psychology and psychiatry and written several papers to medical journals
on abnormal psychology, aberrant sexual behavior. Additionally I have
counseled men and women who are a couple whether married or not. I have
also counseled individuals. This came up in group sessions several
times.
I do not pretend to have the answers, the men who answer will tell you
why, but the man is not always in control and if you spend the decade of
your twenties copulating, both the man and the woman will degenerate
after a few years and look for another turn on. Never did it myself,
never had an urge, I was just glad to be able to get off hopefully at
the same time as her.
Now that I am older I have to leave it to the younger men who practice
it, but I do know that healthy young men and women have what others
might think is a gross sexual practice, who is to judge, not me. Why
not leave it in the bedroom unless it makes itself out onto the road,
then we can full examine it. Party on.

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Wed 08/23/06 08:02 PM
lol doctor shadow!!

gterry05's photo
Wed 08/23/06 08:13 PM
For me I just like to cumm..Whenever and as much as i can so long as the
situation is right...

tallandtttanned's photo
Wed 08/23/06 08:15 PM
it doesn't matter where i cum as long as she is happy when she cums

LVMasterJason's photo
Thu 08/24/06 07:32 AM
This post is a direct response to some of what Dr.Shadowj said in his
comments concerning the practice of ejaculating into your partner's
face...
Im somewhat confused, and slightly disturbed by what appears to be
several contradictory statments in your post...
First, you make a point of mentioning the fact that you are a medical
doctor, specifically a psychiatrist, who has written several papers on
*ABNORMAL* psychology, and *ABERRANT* sexual behavior, as well as having
*COUNCELED* both individuals and groups on matters pertaining to
(normal? typical? dysfunctional? pathological?)human sexual practices
and behaviors... quite obviously presenting yourself as an expert on the
subject...but then you then state "I dont pretend to have the answers".
Now, assuming thats a simple truthful factual statement, and not some
sort of false modesty, not wanting to sound superior, egotistical or
arrogant... how can someone ignorant or unaware or uninformed or
misinformed when it comes to providing clients or patients with answers
to their questions concerning sexual behavior in all its limitless
variations, presume to offer reliable, accurate, unbiased and
constructive effective councel on those very same issues?
Then, as an aside, you candidly admit to being "glad to get off
hopefully at the same time as her" thus perpetuating the widely held but
misguided, mythical and ill-advised goal, that hoped for ultimate
"acheivement", the holy grail of intercourse,the "simultanious mutual
orgasm" ... which happens to be just one out of countless other bits of
untrue, false or misleading counterproductive, destructive unrealistic
expectations that unfortunately get repeated over and over until they
become a part of the collective consiousness, and accepted as true.
Finally, you suggest that while there are sexual acts or practices that
"others might think of as gross" you state the rhetorical "who is to
judge?" and then add "not me"
I would sincerely appreciate it if you could enlighten Me as to how you
can, on the one hand, write papers on ABNORMAL or ABERRANT sexual
behavior, but on the other, claim to be NON-judgemental, neutral,
unbiased, etc...
One has to wonder if you began all those counceling sessions by giving
a disclaimer.. "I dont have any answers to any of your questions about
sexual behavior" and "who am I to judge others sexual behavior...best to
just leave it in the bedroom"
Not quite the best approach to gaining the confidence, respect and
compliance of clients that have come to you expecting and assuming
they'll be given the benefits of your education and training, your
knowledge, experience and insights, and receive a high quality of
professional psychiatric services, including answers to all their
worries, concerns and queries pertaining to their sexuality and sexual
behavior, looking to YOU for your *judgement* as to whats "normal" and
"ok" versus "abnormal".

with all due respect, doc... if you're going to post comments and
replies to the various topics typical on this type of
"singles/dating/personal ads" website, how about if you stick to giving
just your own personal, private, and NON-professional OPINIONS.... OR...
speaking as a MEDICAL DOCTOR and an EXPERT on sex, sexuality and sexual
behavior, just stick to whatever the lastest edition of the DSM codes
tells you to say...
but dont try to do both at the same time.

oh, one last thing... if anyone reading this wants to know the REAL
TRUTH when it comes to "normal vs abnormal" behavior, psychiatry,
psychology and their actual function in society, I strongly suggest and
recommend you read one or more of the books written by Dr.Thomas S.
Szasz, beginning with "The Myth of Mental Illness--Foundations of a
Theory of PersonalConduct"

After which you will also appreciate reading...
Pain and Pleasure
Law, Liberty, and Psychiatry
The Ethics of Psychoanalysis
Psychiatric Justice
Ideology and Insanity
The Manufacture of Madness
The Second Sin
and
(My personal favorite) Ceremonial Chemistry

Tricess's photo
Thu 08/24/06 12:47 PM
Wow MasterJason, well said. I personally never came in anyones face or
mouth until a woman asked me too. She said that it turned her on. So
maybe its not the only men that want to cum in a woman's face. It can
be blamed on both sides.

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Thu 08/24/06 01:11 PM
I've done that before...but i was asked to by my girlfriend!
i felt good cumming, but it didnt just go on her face. it went on her
tits and by doing this it open a whole different door in our
relationship and sex life!!! for the ones who KNOWS what
im talking about...

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Thu 08/24/06 03:14 PM
it all about their manhood...they like to watch their seed spill over
you

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Thu 08/24/06 03:57 PM
I think it's an ego thing.

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Thu 08/24/06 04:04 PM
I AM SORRY BUT DON'T INCLUDE ALL MEN IN THIS. BECAUSE I FOR ONE HAVE
NEVER CUMMED ON A LADY AND I NEVER WILL. AND IN DEFENSE OF SOME GUYS WHO
DO THIS(MY FRIEND FOR EXAMPLE)THEY DO IT ON THE REQUEST OF THE LADY THEY
ARE HAVEING SEX WITH.

ImJusKat58's photo
Thu 08/24/06 06:38 PM
LVMASTERJASON~

I think you're gorgeous. Shut up and kiss me...

HOTMOMMA's photo
Thu 08/24/06 06:48 PM
i think you are right they like to see there seed all over us and it
does open doors but then when does it stop. they just keep asking us to
do shit until its all just four them

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Thu 08/24/06 06:56 PM
All I can say is FUCKING RIGHT ON THAT WAS GREAT ANOTHER BLOW TO THE
ESTABLISHMENT!

VacantHeart's photo
Fri 08/25/06 03:17 AM
Master Jason I am an aspiring psychologists and i would like to
interview a man of your sture and such intellect if possible.

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Fri 08/25/06 03:35 AM

I rather cum in a woman than out. There are plenty of reason around
this globe not to though(kids). The ex loved for me to be straddled over
her stomach and her to give me a hand job. She loved watching me cum and
would rub it all over her tits and body. It was a turn off for me for
her to rub herself down with it. She even spread it on her nipples and
aske me to lick them. That was a big turn off.

The only odd sexual behavior is not having a sex. But many of us have a
set standard. Like I will not lick around anyones asshole(rim job).

lionsbrew's photo
Fri 08/25/06 06:20 PM
because the watched to many pornos and see women as objects and not the
person they will be kissing in five minutes honestly most guys see it in
a porn and think hey maybe this is what im supposed to do when really
its kinda nasty when you think about it and insulting to a partner its
like spittin in theyre face might as well just hock a lugey on her face
if that vision gets you off

bobsmith's photo
Fri 08/25/06 06:22 PM
i like to come in their mouth.

paterafan's photo
Fri 08/25/06 06:26 PM
WELL PESONALLY IVE NEVER TRIED IT AND I DONT THINK I WILL,BUT ABSOLUTELY
ANYWERE ELSE IS FINE AS LONG AS BOTH OF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH IT

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