I am an Asian guy and living here nearly 2 yeara. I am not a bad guy and also an open-minded person. But it's still too hard to make friend ưith Aussie girls. Anyone have recommendations? I am just looking for a long and serious relationship.

leave im Chinese American and no problem

Aussie girls are not what they use to be. Too much drama. To much indecision. To much discombobulation.

If you know any cute Chinese girls, send them to me!

If I happen to meet a nice Aussie girl, I'll send her to you.

I neead a sexy gril. For charing him. Any body hear.

I love this one!

Me too! Lovely! Eloquent!

Aww thanks guys. I'm so over Aussie women. Whatever was in the water 20 years ago is desperately missing today.

Here more thought:

I can make happiness around me, limited to me. But I can't make a person happy. They have to want to be happy about the experience. If they want to be unhappy, or other pulls in their life are negative, then those forces might overwhelm and result in misdirected unhappiness.

Though in a relationship, if you channel external unhappiness upon the person who brings happiness, you might loose love, and forever happiness.

To have both in the same existence, is very rare. Its how you reflect and project that is key.

If you break that love, you may never have an equal or greater experience again, because once you put into the universe that you are unhappy with being loved and unhappy with happiness, the universe will adjust its thresholds, lower. So your expectations can be met.

Lowering your standard, for a period of time, and not reflecting to realize and raise them quickly again, could most likely, leave you in loveless relationships and unhappiness for the rest of your life.

From observing my past relationships, I can say, whilst I grow with greater love and greater happiness, especially at times in my life where I have removed toxic people (but not the basic memory of), I've noticed, those partners who have left me, have all fallen well below the success and potential they could have achieved, and all are clearly unhappy.

This brings me to think about this present moment, leading into the future. Not the past.

If history, so to speak, repeats itself, then it seems I retain the path to greater happiness and a greater love.

If loved can reflect and change the cycle on the side of the relationship I do not control, a new history will be created and the past no longer establishes a pattern. One that I don't control.


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Um. God did not create sex. God created love. Sex was a process of genetic procreation.

Women are designed to find better genetic code and reproduce every 7 years. (Tjays when a child discovers independence.). That may not occur with the same partner as better genetic code might come along.

Women carry eggs that contain genetic code limited to the genetics and eugenics of their grandmother. Men carry genetic and eugenic code of the present moment.

Love and sex are not inter-related. You can have great sex without loving the person(s), just as much as you can love a person romantically and intimately without having sex.

Don't confuse with lust.

Love with great sex is amazing. But all to often, people adjust their "love feeling threshold" to above the love experience, making it feel love is gone.

Whitney Huston sang "You are the greatest love of all" which meant that as she loved each new person, that live was greater than the last.

I choose to always feel love for my partner. Increasing not only the threshold but also my acceptance and desire.

Nice One

Are you talking about humans or a Bar B Que?

My thoughts exactly. Behold the muscle car grill. Ain't she fine?