I am begining to think I have lepercy or somthing. I have no luck with women, and all I want is to find somone to spend time with, share those little moments with, but I have never had that gift of gab to keep them interested. I NEED HELP

Try not to talk about racing too much...
Trust me, I know...

somthin bout racing doesnt interest tham very much......even though racing is so awesome

probably my bigest downfall....Racing

I consider myself to have an excellent "gift of gab"......

.....not that it makes a lot of difference. Women can smell an empty wallet a mile away .

cant help but be who I am . mabey someday I will find somone who can love me as I am and not want to change me!

if you're not supposed to talk about racing,no wonder i don't have luck with women

Well dude. Here's my 2 cents. the basis of love is to fill anothers needs. if you run out of words then just simply do somthing for her or simply ask her questions about anything you can think of. Women want to be wanted and desire for you to be interested in everything they are about.- Run out of words, ask enough questions and I almost guarentee "she" won't. Basically just try to fill her needs and most importantly her need to be desired and known. Works for me.

I truly there are people out there for ALL of us....

We just have to find them...

As far as I know, there are women that LOVE racing, and you should NEVER have to change....to find them. In the long run, you WILL regret it.

I just do what I love , it does not take away from my responsibilities,

NASCAR sucks by the way.

Something my soon to be ex couldn't handle about me. The next one I'll try to get involved in the sport...though Drag racing is MUCH easier to become a participant in than circle track racing. I'd like to try street stocks once...

I'll give ya a "girls" point of view or at least mine.

I disagree about racing being your pitfall and to avoid talking about it too much. If you love it and it is your passion, you need, and hopefully wil find, the right woman who also has that passion.

Though I am not a huge race fan by any means, I know quite a few of my girl friends that are diehards, just as I am about the Sox. Find one of them, don't give up what you love.

As for having the gift of gab, just be you.

Good luck.

That's ok..I have no luck with guys. I gave up. Giving up is a lot easier than putting yourself out there for constant heartbreak.

don't say you are a looser either look at it positively
ordont even mention it. Wait till you get to know the person. Nobody likes a two time looser.
thats all i got to say bout that
boogiemann

"I" found my 'woman' here, and she loves all of me. You will find her eventually, takes prayer and usually just happens when you're mingling. I never would have approached her in person though. She didn't fit my "type", but she was worth waiting for and i didn't have to just' settle.

Thanks

Oh. And OneGoofyDame, I know how the heart break thing goes. Most of mine actually came from attempting to just settle for someone. It's never worth lowering your exspetations.

One man's opinion:

1. Replace the negative comments about yourself with something positive. You're not a social retard. You're not a 'looser' in marriage. Watch the language. Attitude has a lot to do with it.

2. Please use spell check when writing. Women like to think they're conversing with an intelligent man.

3. Take an active interest in the things women like. What's her favorite book? Then read it. Music? Listen to it. Celebrities? Know them. It seems superficial, but women like to know you're curious about them and their hobbies. Have some of your own to talk about as well. You're right. Not just racing.

4. Be encouraging, supportive and make a woman feel validated.

5. Whatever you do, don't make a woman think that you're desperate. Big turn off there.

Again, just my opinion.

You seem like a cool guy. Good luck, man.