Honestly I know each of you extremely well. All of you have volunteered quite a bit of personal information. More than I really needed to know in some circumstances. We've all been through some bitter experiences in our past relationships and I can't even joke about it for you are all quality women with great goals and desires in life and I respect all of you. Keep your open minds. It is one of your good qualities.

eh... I'll keep my mind open but my heart is closed for business.

For a guy like me I'm blessed knowing all of you. I've learned from our discussions jess of the human atribute. I've learned about strengths and aggrivation in my arguements with jaime. And I've quietly listened to you yokoke in some of your many posts and found them to be quite balanced. You have my respect whether you want it or not.

thanks cutie

Its really very simple.......we want a guy who treats us like a queen........who rocks our world in bed........and is financially stable.........

IS THAT SO EFFING HARD TO UNDERSTAND????

Want me to keep going? Ok. Nicki you know me as a man of my word. And that I'm slightly vanity driven and childish. I honestly do care about people. I know you as one of the strongest willed, patient, caring, kindest women around. I admire your teaching abilities with kids.

Deana, you work so hard to get things done. Never a quitter. You are so open hearted you have given a bum on the street the shirt off your back and a warm meal in his belly. You didn't tell me I just knew. Don't be too shocked. You are above and beyond the call of duty in the kindness department and yeh bringin home strays brings you more than you bargain for sometimes. I kept my word. Todd should be in your mailbox by thanksgiving.

Deana, you work so hard to get things done. Never a quitter. You are so open hearted you have given a bum on the street the shirt off your back and a warm meal in his belly. You didn't tell me I just knew. Don't be too shocked. You are above and beyond the call of duty in the kindness department and yeh bringin home strays brings you more than you bargain for sometimes. I kept my word. Todd should be in your mailbox by thanksgiving.

And how bout that gypsy? The womans got the most difficult, stressful, heart wrenchin job in the world and has not taken it out on us. She's kept her composure and decorum, and most of all her sense of humor. A true asset to our society.

I'll even take being treated like a peasant girl that he is fond of... LOL... cus every relationship I've been in I've been treated like the servant girl...

I treat people the way I'd like to be treated with trust and respect. But some just want more and I don't understand that. That woman that I took on one dinner date and dropped her off at her front door just to be stalked, my character defamed, and an attempt at burning my house down can be easily explained. I did not do a criminal background check on her and she was unstable voices in her head to begin with. But I had another situation that I'd like your advice on..........

man, it sucks how men stereo-type women and we generalize men as well until we're so cynical that we don't even want to give another the time of day. Everyone wants to rush into things rather than just make friends and see if they're really worth being in a relationship with or just staying friends and hopefully no one gets hurt that way. And there are women out there who don't care about all the material crap...like me, I've got my own damn money...I definitely do not even need the help of a man; know what I want? Someone to go out with, listen to music, watch a movie, kick it on the couch, rebuild an old car, go to the beach, laugh, cry, experience life with while maintaining a friendship. Near the end when you can barely even have sex or find each other physically attractive, all that other stuff won't matter anyway and it'd be nothing left if you weren't good companions.

I took a woman on a dinner date and we had a great time. After dinner I took her home. She invited me up for a beverage and then propositioned me. She made advances on me and I told her I'm not a sex on a first date kindof guy and that I felt uncomfortable. She got mad and violent. What am I supposed to do in a situation like that? It was a great evening. One to remember till she became mad and violent. I was in fear for my life.

oh just give it up kyle!!! Did you feel like a cheap whore???

HOLY CRAP...in that situation, I would simply say, "well thank you for making it clear to me that I was making a wise decision in not having sex with you." But if you mean before all that, you should've said goodnight the moment you felt uncomfortable. The whole nice act and good times before propositioning was fake, the crazy broad trying to get some is real and was probably a little worse feeling rejected, but still not worth it

I'd rather have 100 respectful good night kisses on the cheek than one meaningless f*ck. Why do you think I'm dating the beautiful models and oversexed women? Because I'm not hitting on them all the time. We go out, dress like slobs sometimes and just have fun. But when we do showoff look out!

Thanks Kyle!
NOW YOUR TELLING EVERYBODY ABOUT OUR DATE!!!








J/K

You think I'm joking.

And you're all waiting for a punchline that won't ever come.

There's no joke about how you feel & act. It sounds real to me.