Topic: Relationships working after cheating occurs
Flying88's photo
Sat 03/18/17 11:59 AM
What would you do if your partner cheated. Take a little time and think about it??

soufiehere's photo
Sat 03/18/17 12:04 PM
Edited by soufiehere on Sat 03/18/17 12:05 PM
Da Boot would come before da thinking.

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Sat 03/18/17 12:08 PM
Hey I have my front tooth Out

TMommy's photo
Sat 03/18/17 12:11 PM
yes there are couples who have stayed together after one or both have cheated
usually...have their reasons
house/mortgage/kids
religious beliefs
many go to counseling either with a licensed counselor, psychologist
or psychiatrist or perhaps with their Pastor

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Sat 03/18/17 12:12 PM

What would you do if your partner cheated. Take a little time and think about it??


It will depends on some details, if i love him and see that reget his act i will give him a second chance

Mikeloy's photo
Sat 03/18/17 12:28 PM
hello sweetie how are u doing today

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Sat 03/18/17 12:31 PM
Depends on the type of cheating...
If she eats my half of the Ice Cream, she gone, done, toast, Bon voyage, see ya later... I won't put up with that. grumble


On the serious side, it does depends on the type of cheating. Is she spending money I don't know about like her own bank account or running up credit cards I don't know about, well we can get over that. Does she have a male confidant that she talks to about our relationship issues or other high interest things in her life instead of sharing with me? We must have a communication issue and we should work on that.
Is she sleeping with another guy, as Garth Brooks put it, moma's in the graveyard and papa's in the Penn...


My two cents.


msharmony's photo
Sat 03/18/17 12:31 PM


What would you do if your partner cheated. Take a little time and think about it??


It will depends on some details, if i love him and see that reget his act i will give him a second chance



this^

Twintidbits24's photo
Sat 03/18/17 12:48 PM
It is but hard to destroy one's trust but still you need to confront your partner and know the reasons before making any further decisions....

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Sat 03/18/17 01:47 PM
There's nothing to think about. My significant other cheats on me, buh bye.

I've been in a relationship where my girlfriend(actual serious relationship) at the time decided to get some loving from her ex. While I was gone on a trip to Europe. I was only gone for 2&1/2 weeks.

Once trust is broken, I'm not willing to risk having that broke again.

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Sat 03/18/17 02:02 PM
I would never trust her again and I really can not see how a relationship could continue without trust.

I may still love her, but it would be over.

Cheating just doesn't " happen".. these is more then enough time to think of your actions... and the ramifications of them.

nokarm's photo
Sat 03/18/17 02:05 PM
It does happen, but it takes a bit for the trust to return IF you want to remain in that relationship though but it all may work out for the better in the end sometimes

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 03/18/17 03:42 PM
Cheating always comes down to a choice to cheat. Anyone who chooses to cheat on me can expect that the relationship is toast and I am going to choose when it ends.

Since I can't have my first option, homicide, I am going to make sure my second choice is as painful as possible.

Sounds harsh but if you talk to ANY person I have a relationship with is there is a standing option to get a divorce fair and square.

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/18/17 03:44 PM
Edited by no1phD on Sat 03/18/17 03:44 PM
Why on Earth would a woman cheat on this awesomeness ..right^^ here..lol.
... but let's just say for argument's sake that she got hit over the head..
And suffered from short-term amnesia.. and went out on the town with some other guy.....hmmmm...
Well what's good for the goose is good for the gander I guess..... I wonder if Pamela Anderson is available for a dinner date. ..lol

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 03/18/17 04:03 PM

Why on Earth would a woman cheat on this awesomeness ..right^^ here..lol.
... but let's just say for argument's sake that she got hit over the head..
And suffered from short-term amnesia.. and went out on the town with some other guy.....hmmmm...
Well what's good for the goose is good for the gander I guess..... I wonder if Pamela Anderson is available for a dinner date. ..lol


Hey I think this definitely a two way street. If my late husband caught me cheating I would expect him to kick me to the curb and make it a humiliating as possible.

No if's, no butts, no maybe's. And eben if I am crippled, crazy, or under duress it is NP excuse.

Why anyone would leave PHD I am going to say crazy. Sorry she might be the Mother of his kids but seems like a nice guy. And he didn't even pay me to say it. Lol


ldt's photo
Sat 03/18/17 06:45 PM
Trust is broken....I'm done