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Topic: I just gotts know....
Dragonl0ve's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:57 PM
Cause she is easy to get into bed?

stevenpwis's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:58 PM
hahaha, I don't really, just had to be a smart ass

Dragonl0ve's photo
Mon 11/19/07 04:03 PM
So was I lol. I knew a guy who used to say that though.

I think there needs to be a balance of confidence and modesty... Just don't be a whinny spineless person.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 11/19/07 05:04 PM
"Guys are simple... women are not simple and they always assume that men must be just as complicated as they are, only way more mysterious. The whole point is guys are not thinking much. They are just what they appear to be. Tragically."

-Dave Barry

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Mon 11/19/07 05:21 PM
i need my girl to have confidence if not then i would have to break up with her i will not continue with this cuz this topic makes me mad

RadiantRomantic's photo
Tue 11/20/07 08:57 AM
Why does it make you mad Player?

darkman102's photo
Tue 11/20/07 09:07 AM
hmmm a nice butt

Goofball73's photo
Tue 11/20/07 09:53 AM

You hear it from your guy friends and you hear it from celebrities. It's that infamous phrase. "The most attractive things about a woman is confidence." The guys say it but is it really the truth.

I want to hear from the real guys out there. Is confidence really one of the biggest draws for you? If not what is?


I absolutely love a woman who is confident in who she is. Not with an ego. But, she just knows what kind of person she is and she doesn't change for anyone. If she is a smartass, then be that. If she is goofy, be that. If she is a tomboy, be that. Be confident in you. That is what attracts me.

Now, I love a nice butt too. And the eyes....the eyes are essential to me. Tells me alot about the woman.:wink:

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Tue 11/20/07 09:55 AM
and what if she is a confident goofy smart azz?noway :wink: :tongue:

Goofball73's photo
Tue 11/20/07 09:58 AM

and what if she is a confident goofy smart azz?noway :wink: :tongue:


Huge bonus......but I am not so sure that she exists. She might though.

yokoke's photo
Tue 11/20/07 11:53 AM

and what if she is a confident goofy smart azz?noway :wink: :tongue:


Then her nic would be Gypsy41......

I win that trivia question!! LOL Ok next one....

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

lovesongsweetie's photo
Tue 11/20/07 08:27 PM
actually its pretty undeniable that confidence is universally attractive to both genders... im pretty sure theres a scientific study or two that supports that theory.

yokoke's photo
Fri 11/23/07 01:56 PM

Is confidence really one of the biggest draws for you? If not what is?


If it is and it is lacking how can you build the self confidence factor up??sick indifferent embarassed

Jess642's photo
Fri 11/23/07 01:58 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Fri 11/23/07 01:59 PM
<---------------man magnet!!!


laugh laugh laugh laugh

I am so confident, they come a running...


Then I open my mouth...grumble grumble grumble grumble

And they all run away again.

:wink: laugh :tongue: devil

yokoke's photo
Fri 11/23/07 02:07 PM

<---------------man magnet!!!


laugh laugh laugh laugh

I am so confident, they come a running...


Then I open my mouth...grumble grumble grumble grumble

And they all run away again.

:wink: laugh :tongue: devil


So you are saying your voice is deeper than theirs??? LOL
They worry about the size of your own imaginary teabags??? LOL
Or the words and phrases are comprehensible only to those of 110IQ or more???

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou drinker bigsmile

Jess642's photo
Fri 11/23/07 02:44 PM
Ummm...number 3...IQ... and all that..:wink: :tongue: laugh laugh laugh

Jess642's photo
Fri 11/23/07 02:48 PM
Ok, hang on a tic, and I will try to be sensible...

I am confident, I am comfortable in who I am, and yes that appears to be an attractive quality, to both genders.

Although it may be an attractive quality, it can also be intimidating, or work against one, to attract those of lesser confidence, for you to be a 'crutch' of sorts, for their low self confidence.

So yes, intellect, confidence, strong self esteem, and a broad understanding of the world around one, and also, having emotional IQ, can work against a gal.

no photo
Fri 11/23/07 02:55 PM
She has to be attractive in SOME WAY, eyes, smile, charmming,ect

But what makes her go beyound her apperance, is TO ME,,,OK,

Her truth, her Communication abilities, easy laid back and in control of her and OUR conversations, but yet open to my thoughts.

People show SO MUCH of their inner self, in the way that they can talk to YOU, or lesten for that matter.
And that would tell me WHO SHE WAS INSIDE, her HEART!! Substance

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