Hey there, I was in long term relation and it was great. I was in UK she was in Korea. We loved, cared met each other regularly. However, I would state doesn't matter how much we try it's really hard to maintain it. What's your opinion guys any success story you can share.

At your age long-term is subjective.

I was married for 25 years. I thought it would last a lifetime. It failed because we both failed the commitment.

My sister has been married for 43 years. They are still together and there are no signs of problems.

I know many that celebrated their 50th and one that celebrated their 75th.
It all depends on how accurately you choose your mate and for what reasons.

I am sorry the title should say long distance and it got autocorrected to long term. Thank you for the insight though tom

I am sorry the title should say long distance and it got autocorrected to long term. Thank you for the insight though tom

LDR'S won't last if one or both does not do something to make it work...In this life sacrifices needs to be made BUT you must have the support of your partner to make things work if you both want each other and no one else and consider the sacrifice made....If neither one would give in then it will definitely fail....sit down and talk who's going to relocate and write down the pros and cons for both sides....LDR's should be short term only, it will not survive the long term.....

I want real honest good women for merge

There is a difference in long term vs long distance. I believe in long term but long distance isn't for me

Recently I have realized most the women I'm interested in ..do live quite a ways from me... one and a half hours drive which is 3 hours round trip And up to 5 hours.away. . Which is a 10 hour round trip.. that's a long ways to go for a kiss good morning and night...but.. seems like those women I connect with the most the ones out of my reach... maybe it's because they are out of my reach

Its possible to insulate ones rejection with folks who are not likely to be viable but give the emotional fun of pseudo involvement... but then I could be wrong.... and also just bad luck with a small sample size and very specific requisites few can match

I guess anyone else is too close for comfort? Easier to keep them at a distance when they actually are

Jeepers Creepers you make me sound like a coffee snob..lol..
my city is quite large good pool of women to choose from in my city ...

But there's another major city three hours away from here it just seems like the women there just seem to be a whole lot better... probably because it's more of a cowboy and cowgirl kind of city. I find myself attracted to . The cowgirl type.. and there are quite a few little farm town within an hour and a half from my city so there's a lot of small town hotties living in these places... but again it's just the drive time.. why drive for pizza when you can have it delivered..lol

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Hi.u..wink... no I establish relationships with some of these out-of-town women the connection is always good.. but again it could just be that unattainable aspect... that and lot of them seem to have young children..nooooo

Hiya No1
Young children, yes... definite no-go zone!