My match would be someone who could be my star in the night, my umbrella for the rain, my blanket when it's cold and the coal to my Flame

It would just be a bonus if he looked like Tom Cruise

I don't have a checklist. Based on my own experience, life is full of surprises... I'm full of surprises.

So, by your own words, you will date anyone?
I doubt that is true...

Life is FULL of the mundane. The surprises are the zest that makes life interesting. If life were full of surprises, we could never establish a routine. There would be no 'safe' place to recharge. We could never establish normality.

Being full of surprises means you are unpredictable. I feel it is our predictability that allows us to bond with others. We find comfort in the patterns we establish in the mundane.

I understand what you mean. You are stating that the mundane is something you feel is boring. There are many people that feel the same. You need excitement and you tend to mix things up so you keep the excitement.
Been there/Done that.
There does come a time when the excitement of surprises gets over-powering and you need to just recharge in the mundane. You may not realize it but you are not as surprising as you might think.

No, I wouldn't date just anyone. I even don't interact daily with just anyone. I choose people to my inner circle by their values, moral standards, interests, lifestyle and how we connect with each-other. But I do that with all people, not only with possible partner.

But I really don't have a list, like... he must be tall...check... blonde hair... check...blue eyes......check...reads books...check...talks 5 languages...check..check...check...

I had it about year ago and then something happened. Someone totally opposite to that list appeared into my life and turned it all upside down.

It's not about excitement or predictability. It's about how two people get along with each-other, how comfortable they feel with each-other, how they complement each-other, about trust and mutual understanding, ability to communicate with each-other in all kind of situations and etc. But this doesn't depend on one person, it depends on synergy of two. Doesn't matter if he is taller or shorter than you, does he likes sports or action movies, plays piano or violin, has a master degree or works on construction building. Because when you meet someone with whom you can establish all that... then the check-list goes to trash-can.

hmm really baby but can I no each other

Well, not only do I NOT date within my own gender, I require the ability to form a complete functional sentence.

we will be matched in a way that we complement each other always looking forward to be together. two positives making it right but realistically i know its not always this way but with my match anything will be quite possible

selflessness

Perfect Match: one that talks not always of what they like to do when everything is going great but how they are when everything isn't necessarily "peachy"