Ok.. we all want that princess or Prince Charming... but very rarely do we find them... who we usually find is the almost 75%princes and almost 75%Prince Charming...
Now... only once in my life did i meet somebody.. that I thought back then hit all my bells and whistles..had.100%.of what I was looking for..
But thinking back on it maybe not all the bells and whistles .mybe only 75%

Normally I meet someone I'm attracted to them but they don't have all the emotional and other stuff that I'm looking for...Funny. giving.. emotional communicative but I usually date them and discover that stuff as I go.... because I was only attracted to there surface-level self
and the relationship works for a while..
The beginning is always the best the first six seven months.. but then you discover that ,not so good stuff about each other after that point... the nuts and bolts of a relationship.. that you need to make it work . and then it ENDS..

now iam. wondering is this normal ?.is this most people's experience...?

Or do you hold out for that princess or Prince Charming...Do
You need to have the whole package 100%..?

Or is just 75%.. good enough and either be okay with the 25% that's not there or you work on making it a 100%. Are get close..80% type of relationship..together..

Because now when I meet somebody I try to look at their whole person.. but I might not be feeling that immediate connection..
Where in the past it was just that instant connection seem to be enough.... they were funny or pretty. But maybe lacking the emotional..
Now I meet beautiful. women . And they're not funny . but have some of the emotional..stuff..
.And some not so beautiful. women..but they are beautiful inwardly..are funny.. but again are..lacking something..

So do you hold out for all the bells and whistles 100% or just take the person as they come 75%..and work it out from there..be ok with them who they are as a person.?
Because you don't know When you have a princess or Prince Charming.. until you spend some time with them..hmmm...

I guess you just need to know some of the basic things you're looking for..
For me its .. obvious..a I am looking for.. A certain amount of physical Beauty ,. It could just be their eyes or their smile their laughter even. Facial Beauty ..if thay had an athletic body would be nice ..But it's not the end-all-be-all .are is it..hmmm.. none of us are getting any younger..lol
. It seems to me they need to have a great sense of humor about themselves.. and find me !..really funny and clever... and if they squint their eyes maybe find me handsome as well in the right light..lol..
Also need good communication and the emotional stuff...
Seems like a lot to ask for..100% hard to find all. that.... so is 75%.. enough or do you need a 100% percent..
Because really I don't think any of us are a 100%percent...mybe 50% to 95%..but 100%..hmmmmm...

This same question was asked not so long ago...
As far as I can tell I think I found 100%.
Have I found perfection? No. But I wasn't looking for perfection, I was looking for a man who had all the things that I felt were important.

During the process of being single for 4 yrs, and digesting a bad relationship, I got very clear what it was I needed in a relationship and from a partner. The very basics, not ridiculous demands, and not details like "blue eyes and blond hair".

And it also was clear to me that I was not going to settle. It was either find that one guy or simply stay single. And I found him. Or rather, he found me :)
The Yang to my Yin. Not a 'sort of kind of matches me.'

Will we clash as we get to know each other better? I don't doubt it for a second, grin. Both (very) strong people. But that's okay. I wanted a strong man, a masculine man. And I got just that :)

Since I have a strong Jewish background I like to trade.

I bargain starting from 50%
Then, I start her upgrading & training to 75%
SPECIALLY pay more attention to NAGGING TRAINING/S.
( Mind you, that can take some time )



Once I get to what's good enough for me ( Say 75-85% )
The rest comes easy, she is on auto and does it herself

All at no extra effort or Personal Health effects & costs.


Remind them from time to time that you only
want to make an honest wife out of them in the near future.

awareness and tolerance go a long way..
aware that we can't be everything to someone..
tolerant of what we may go 'hmmmmm' to,, afterall, no one is perfect..

It takes a while to uncover querky habits and the true personality, IMHO..
After the 'honeymoon' stage and real life sets in..there's give'n take, sometimes you give 60%, other times its them...