Topic: do you believe in long distance relationship?
kst12's photo
Tue 03/07/17 11:47 PM
yup depends upon others perception

kuraokami's photo
Thu 03/09/17 12:32 PM
Had 5 year long distance relation. She sent her engagement video previous week. So not anymore

Madurai20boy's photo
Fri 03/10/17 06:04 AM
Yes long distance is the last test for true love! ...but love shoud be equal by both side...

TMommy's photo
Fri 03/10/17 07:37 AM

Had 5 year long distance relation. She sent her engagement video previous week. So not anymore
oh Thor did not realize you were on Mingle huh

no photo
Fri 03/10/17 08:09 AM
Been 5 yrs ldr but nothing happened its just like a fairy tale

no photo
Fri 03/10/17 08:10 AM
Hope to find a better man

Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 03/10/17 08:25 AM
It makes it difficult to shag.

snickas69's photo
Fri 03/10/17 09:12 AM
I believe luv and relationship but there are her a lot of people that make it really hard for the right people to connect, the personality is the truth there are guys that can listen to everything you say and see the same picture you see, and there are guys who personality will not allow him to live in your personality world, you cannot hide from the heart, it will always reveal the truth about the person which gives you the decision to decide if we you accepting that way or see if they can change

snickas69's photo
Fri 03/10/17 09:14 AM
keep your head up a good man know your worth and cares about your interest and your well-being

snickas69's photo
Fri 03/10/17 09:15 AM
I don't see why any guy would not want to treat you with respect loyalty honesty and love

no photo
Sat 03/11/17 12:23 AM
In what dear

adhichadi's photo
Sat 03/11/17 03:26 AM
chances are low. 2 to 3% people do really meet

no photo
Tue 03/14/17 02:59 AM

I believe in it, but I am aware that very few are successful. Both people have to be really committed to the process and have great communication skills and trust in each other.


I second Peggy and the gent above - actually I believe in it, but it's pretty hard to make it succeed.
Anyway, I wish you good luck Ann!

no1phD's photo
Fri 03/17/17 01:41 PM
Edited by no1phD on Fri 03/17/17 01:55 PM
What's the problem with long distance relationships?.well as I see it...
the...scenario it's a woman that has a child.. let's make the child 10 years old.. the child has his or her own friends her school. The woman has her friends her job career maybe some family nearby..And mybe her ex-partner isn't really helping her ..but he wants to see their child when he feel like it...
Ok. . Now if you are both in the same city.. dating and seeing each other all the time ,would not be a problem. ..
You would have to work around the child of course.. it would be nice if she could spend the weekend with her dad or maybe a close friend..but.you take your time developing . The relationship with the child a little later on...

Ok.. but you have your job your place.. I have my job my place...
Seeing each other is easy...

Now... put .700 miles between them they both live in separate cities...

First off you need to establish a connection so you do this through text messaging and phone calls the connection is good.. more than good great... you really connect and like each other you know there's potential there....
So now you have to find a way to do the meet-and-greet.... we're talking about A 6 hour one way trip...That's 12 hours round-trip.... now before you do that what are the complications.. about what you might both be getting into...

Because somebody is going to have to move to the other person City...
And in this scenario if the guy can't move to her she and the child will have to move to him...wow... that's changing jobs saying goodbye to friends child moving schools it's a whole lot of monkeys running around..
Lol... now I haven't even touched on the emotional hardship of the weeks between seeing each other..
And the fact that the more you see each other the harder it's going to be to be apart from each other..
So then the need to speed the relationship up comes into play..
And that can be a big No-No...
But the heart wants what the heart wants



realboucher's photo
Fri 03/17/17 01:42 PM
yeah

jordan30031995's photo
Fri 03/17/17 01:53 PM
if u want only physical relationship than long distance relationship is best....

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Fri 03/17/17 02:20 PM

if u want only physical relationship than long distance relationship is best....




Ummmm, how exactly does that work? what

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 03/17/17 02:35 PM
Depends if you are wealthy and travel doesn't mess up your personal life.

I am lucky at this stage in my life I can go where I like so if I met someone I could consider relocating but I would still do local time before I transplanted my life and away from what I consider a good life.

Too easy for people to maintain a persona when you don't hang out in the same local. You can get in such a mess. I am no coward but hey I am not going to hang a noose around my neck and just hope I don't hey hung. Lol

raydover's photo
Fri 03/17/17 02:53 PM
Well,i believe we all have something which makes us different from others,as long as the word Love lives therein,and trust follows,we have it all done. Looking for love,you must create that very time for it. Its takes not one day,but more days to look a different way. You mind been a friend? raymondfdover@gmail.com,you can write me. Stay blessed.

christianajack's photo
Fri 03/17/17 06:00 PM
i do but if trust is invove