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I am sorry , I have this habit of being too quiet and shy around men.I guess I like them to do the leading.They seem to get turned off by this. Am I doomed to never meet someone who will like me?
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Well all I can say is that there is no need to be bashful here...
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well look at why youre so shy in the first place!
i mean if someone cant love you for you thats different! but you can always work on being more confident |
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I do not believe your doomed...
It might help you to open up more- online though. I used to be painfully shy and have learned to open up here quite a bit... I too like the man to make the first move... but lately I have been giving gentle nugges. Welcome to JSH! |
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No im sure u will meet several that will like u.some guys like shy.but welcome to just say hi.
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i prefer launching flame balls at them! that always gets attention
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yeah ok.... HI all you guyss!!!!lol thanks
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I think it also helps if you actually have the same interests, so there is something you can actually talk about. Plus, instead of meeting a person on a "date", you can always meet as "friends" and go from there. Maybe you'll feel more comfortable with a different mindset.
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I am very shy, but you have to make yourself to be not shy. It does take work, but if I can do it, you certainly can!!
Good luck to you!! By the way, posting on forums does wonders for shyness!! |
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I'm not !! I am loud, and obnoxious, and a big personality, and I laugh really loud, and am naughty, and embarrassing, and always late...
maybe that's why I'm single... |
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No Lee--it's your pitchfork...that will scare a scarecrow out of a cornfield!!
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Hi mbcasey......how are you.
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Thanks Ken, I was starting to wonder where all the crows went...
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Hi mbcasey......how are you. I am doing OK, thank you. How are you tonight misstreatyounice? |
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oh I thought mb meant Manitoba...
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No problem...I get that alot!
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thank u nice man mbcasey......happy searching
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I'm a shy & quiet guy so we're alike.I do get shy and quiet around girls....I always found it difficult to start the conversation with them especially if I liked them.To answer your question no your not doomed by any stretch of the imagination,you are you and if a guy can't like/love you for who you are as person on the inside and out then you don't deserve him.
Hope that helps. Jesse |
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I am shy as well, I am really not a good conversationalist to be honest with you, I never know what to talk about. Shy girls actually don't turn me off at all because I think it's fun to open up together. I like turtles.
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SHY WOMEN TURN ME OFF I cant do it if she dont open up i just stop talking to her. learn to have fun
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