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Topic: shy n quiet
misstreatunice's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:43 PM
I am sorry , I have this habit of being too quiet and shy around men.I guess I like them to do the leading.They seem to get turned off by this. Am I doomed to never meet someone who will like me?

Troyd879's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:46 PM
Well all I can say is that there is no need to be bashful here...

southern_bee's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:46 PM
well look at why youre so shy in the first place!
i mean if someone cant love you for you thats different!
but you can always work on being more confident

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:46 PM
I do not believe your doomed...
It might help you to open up more- online though.
I used to be painfully shy and have learned to open up
here quite a bit...
I too like the man to make the first move...
but lately I have been giving gentle nugges. :smile:
Welcome to JSH! flowerforyou

southerntouch's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:49 PM
No im sure u will meet several that will like u.some guys like shy.but welcome to just say hi.

southern_bee's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:50 PM
i prefer launching flame balls at them!laugh that always gets attentionlaugh

misstreatunice's photo
Sun 11/18/07 09:50 PM
yeah ok.... HI all you guyss!!!!lol thanks

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Sun 11/18/07 10:04 PM
I think it also helps if you actually have the same interests, so there is something you can actually talk about. Plus, instead of meeting a person on a "date", you can always meet as "friends" and go from there. Maybe you'll feel more comfortable with a different mindset.

mbcasey's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:04 PM
I am very shy, but you have to make yourself to be not shy. It does take work, but if I can do it, you certainly can!!

Good luck to you!!

By the way, posting on forums does wonders for shyness!!

Jess642's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:06 PM
I'm not !! I am loud, and obnoxious, and a big personality, and I laugh really loud, and am naughty, and embarrassing, and always late...


maybe that's why I'm single...huh laugh laugh laugh laugh

mbcasey's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:07 PM
No Lee--it's your pitchfork...that will scare a scarecrow out of a cornfield!!laugh

misstreatunice's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:09 PM
Hi mbcasey......how are you.

Jess642's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:12 PM
bigsmile Thanks Ken, I was starting to wonder where all the crows went...laugh laugh

mbcasey's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:12 PM

Hi mbcasey......how are you.


I am doing OK, thank you. How are you tonight misstreatyounice?

misstreatunice's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:13 PM
oh I thought mb meant Manitoba...:smile:

mbcasey's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:14 PM
No problem...I get that alot!laugh


misstreatunice's photo
Sun 11/18/07 10:27 PM
thank u nice man mbcasey......happy searchingflowerforyou

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Sun 11/18/07 11:00 PM
I'm a shy & quiet guy so we're alike.I do get shy and quiet around girls....I always found it difficult to start the conversation with them especially if I liked them.To answer your question no your not doomed by any stretch of the imagination,you are you and if a guy can't like/love you for who you are as person on the inside and out then you don't deserve him.


Hope that helps.


Jesse

stevenpwis's photo
Mon 11/19/07 01:32 PM
I am shy as well, I am really not a good conversationalist to be honest with you, I never know what to talk about. Shy girls actually don't turn me off at all because I think it's fun to open up together. I like turtles.

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Mon 11/19/07 06:24 PM
SHY WOMEN TURN ME OFF I cant do it if she dont open up i just stop talking to her. learn to have fun

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