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Topic: shy n quiet
lovesongsweetie's photo
Tue 11/20/07 12:29 AM
have some fun hun!
have a girls night out to a bar and you'll meet new people every time =)

Totage's photo
Tue 11/20/07 12:32 AM
Perhaps you're sending the wrong signals, try to be a little more open, smile, talk, make eye contact, etc. Don't worry about what people think, just enjoy the moment.

Tasslehofff's photo
Tue 11/20/07 09:00 PM
My take as a shyish guy.Find something you LOVE,that you can't stop talking about no matter what.Find a guy that's interested in that.And I'm sure there's a good guy out there just waiting to speak with you sometime.Take it slow and build from there.

mild_intensity's photo
Tue 11/20/07 09:03 PM
i wuz shy & thot id NEVER ask a guy out but gues wut...i did :) true story

no photo
Tue 11/20/07 09:04 PM
sometimes you may have to make the first move because you might find the person you like is more shy than you ...smokin

misstreatunice's photo
Thu 11/22/07 04:58 PM
really?? well I'll let u know what happens. Willingto try anything.smooched

misstreatunice's photo
Thu 11/22/07 04:59 PM
really?? well I'll let u know what happens. Willingto try anything.smooched

geektothetenth's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:33 PM
perception is a funny thing. People used to think I had everything easy, I did well in school without trying, I was personable with my friends, had good family the whole nine. But I've always had certain things I was self conscious about which made me shy around girls.

I have another friend whom I always envied a little, big guy, most girls thought he was attractive, very outgoing etc. We talked one night and it turned out he envied somethings about me, and I him.

In short, perception is very rarely reality. You see a lot of people out there who look like they have everything going for them and you start to question yourself, but don't forget that everyone has strengths and weaknesses. So have some confidence and rejoice in your strengths.

happylittlediva8's photo
Thu 11/22/07 09:18 PM
my boyfriend was very shy quiet and reseved when I first meet him, for some people it's a turn on...quiet men are more mysterious so I took the time to get to know him just becaue he was shy quiet and mysterious!

geektothetenth's photo
Thu 11/22/07 09:52 PM
That's nice, I just come off as awkward, unintelligible or mute. When I want to look mysterious I put on a ninja mask and hide in the bushes. I wonder, do girls like the silent but deadly shinobi types?

misstreatunice's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:20 AM
happy hi I like u geek.

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