Topic: Love? when is it real?
Wolfeyes58's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:07 PM
Why thank you Moody...and D...we could circle them with love maybe it would leave an infection...

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Thu 11/29/07 10:07 PM
(((LAMom)))))..just a hug cuz I like the way you think!!..
you put a smile on my face...thanks..

LAMom's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:08 PM
Moodygrl,,, Smile let your soul shine,,, flowerforyou

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh a love infection,,,, bigsmile

Gustava's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:08 PM
Trust me, even as a teenager---and therefore expected to be ridiculously sappy---I never regarded "being in love" as "two hearts beating as one," "soul mates," and all that other romance pulp-fiction crap.

And actually, I wasn't jilted, was the jiltee after 15 years of marriage.

LAMom's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:10 PM
We all see Love in different ways different forms of expressing it,,, We all walk to a different tune in life,,,

:smile:

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Thu 11/29/07 10:11 PM
I paid LAMom to say that...my sentiments exactly...flowerforyou

LAMom's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:12 PM
:wink:

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Thu 11/29/07 10:15 PM
:smile:

AngeBrulant's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:17 PM
Sometimes I think i say I love you too fast. But I still mean it to some extent. But not to the extent of I love you as my true love. Which I guess kind of devalues the meaning behind saying I love you...but I feel like you can say it with different meanings?

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Thu 11/29/07 10:21 PM
Yes Anges...Love has many definitions...it is, in my opinion quite complex...or mayhap I make it complicated...however, with that said....as I have mentioned before, the "L" word has many variables attached to it...I couldn't tell you the last time I conveyed Love to someone, excluding my kids of course...but that is a horse of a different color!!..:smile:

LAMom's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:22 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i so thank I love the way you think
Moodygrl flowerforyou :wink:

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Thu 11/29/07 10:23 PM
flowerforyou back at ya LAMom!!...

Wolfeyes58's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:29 PM
Ok somebody pay me to do something...:wink: laugh

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Thu 11/29/07 10:30 PM
Wolf...still waiting on those Hallmark cards?!!..:wink: flowerforyou

Wolfeyes58's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:54 PM
Hallmark won't accept me...I'm going to try American Greetings...somebody has got to want my poetry..

LAMom's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:55 PM
laugh flowerforyou Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Robert,,, Keep the faith,,,,

Wolfeyes58's photo
Thu 11/29/07 10:59 PM
The only ones that seem to have faith in me is the one I love and all my friends...I hate rejection letters.

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Fri 11/30/07 01:56 AM
Edited by ChiefPUA on Fri 11/30/07 01:56 AM
Love is a sense of self that exists everywhere. When you share love with someone, you are sharing yourself with them and making them a better person by giving them a joyous part of yourself.

I don't think love has to be so exclusive. Whenever you interact with someone in a positive way, you are sharing love. It's just a confusing concept because many people abuse love.

Saying "I love you" isn't usually a pure expression of love because with it comes an endless list of false connotations and assumptions imposed upon by society and social programming. I personally struggle with these "three little words" with every girl I get very intimate with. I feel a strong urge to say it but I know that it could be misinterpretted as MANY things... lol these girls oftentimes get frustrated over the fact that I don't say it... so yeah I actually don't know what to do there, but hell, man... do whatever you want with the word love. just try not to use it for evil :wink:

Jess642's photo
Fri 11/30/07 01:58 AM
Say it when you feel it, for whomever.

Whenever...wherever...when it bubbles up inside you....share it.



:heart:

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Fri 11/30/07 02:01 AM

Say it when you feel it, for whomever.

Whenever...wherever...when it bubbles up inside you....share it.



:heart:

But the endless list of false connotations and assumptions imposed upon love by society and social programming creates a fear within me that makes me not want to say it! What do I do sick
One of my friends with benefits actually cut off all intimacies with me because of this haha