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Topic: Nice Guys are Exciting Too
thatplayer89 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 549	Mon 11/19/07 05:56 PM
ok let me explain nice guys are who they are. there is no such thing as a bad boy. as a player calls it its just being cocky. i forgot about when i was a nice guy but i changed and i have model chicks on me. women will all ways want a good guy so become it

thatplayer89 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 549	Mon 11/19/07 06:02 PM
here are the main problems of a nice guy he is to nice he over qualifies a woman he doesnt have confidence and he is a beta male not alpha. thats the main keys nice guys are fun and exciting

CaRisLOVE Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 3459	Mon 11/19/07 06:08 PM
im a nice guy but i also have a crazy and wild side

jaybez Joined Fri 11/16/07 Posts: 38	Mon 11/19/07 06:12 PM
I WISH I HAD JUST ONE SIDE IM NOT NEAR AS WILD AS I WAS BUT SOME APETITES JUST DONT GO AWAY

jaybez Joined Fri 11/16/07 Posts: 38	Mon 11/19/07 06:13 PM
I WISH I HAD JUST ONE SIDE IM NOT NEAR AS WILD AS I WAS BUT SOME APETITES JUST DONT GO AWAY

thatplayer89 Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 549	Mon 11/19/07 06:17 PM
im a nice guy but i also have a crazy and wild side but do you show this side to women

ephraimglass Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 358	Tue 11/20/07 01:25 AM
im a nice guy but i also have a crazy and wild side but do you show this side to women I've actually felt caught in a Catch 22 when it comes to this. Apparently, even one's "crazy and wild" side is subject to conformity. If you're wild and crazy in the wrong way, you get labeled as creepy. (And I'm not talking about doing anything illegal, dangerous, or perverted. Really mundane stuff, like putting a stuffed animal on one's head, just for laughs.)

lovesongsweetie Joined Fri 10/05/07 Posts: 67	Tue 11/20/07 05:58 AM
nice guys just need more self-confidence... and they need to show that confidence to women perfect combination =)

Mimx Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 64	Tue 11/20/07 11:19 AM
And most people wonder why they are alone. If everyone on here could just listen to themselves. There is only black and white in life. Everyone is so busy make gray areas that you can even see what your doing anymore. Your either a nice guy, or your an asshole. Theres no in between.

Phoenix0311 Joined Sun 03/25/07 Posts: 3389	Tue 11/20/07 11:21 AM


ephraimglass Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 358	Tue 11/20/07 02:37 PM
Your either a nice guy, or your an asshole. Theres no in between. I've refuted this point before but you were apparently not listening. Even if this statement is true, DULL / INTERESTING is a completely different axis. It is an independent variable of your ASSHOLE / NICE axis. Thus, you end up with people who are (dull & assholes), (dull & nice), (interesting & assholes), and (interesting & nice.)

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Tue 11/20/07 04:01 PM
Not speaking for all.... But... I know that people are multi-dimensional. I can understand being black/white. What ever happened to GRAY. There is a serious, loving, affectionate, calm sides of me. How can there not be in every one of us??

Twitch Joined Thu 09/27/07 Posts: 6199	Tue 11/20/07 04:05 PM
I think nice guys are exciting

lovesongsweetie Joined Fri 10/05/07 Posts: 67	Tue 11/20/07 07:02 PM
there is no black and there is no white...just shades of gray the shades that seem black to u are just really dark grays and the ones that seem white are just really light grays. lol

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 11/20/07 07:46 PM
Here is my conclusion on this. See, the Nice guys are the "Good" guys. The bad boys are "Evil". Now, what needs to happen is that the "Good" guys destroy the "Evil" guys, suck out all the bad boy traits, keep those that are useful, train ourselves over again, and then..."PRESTO".....you get the perfect mix. Hey..it could work. Emphasis on could.