I see some people been on here for years . Most people on here are just playing games . I think if you do not want to take a chance on anyone you should be taken of the site .

Your responsibility is to choose for yourself what you want to do not have others removed for your preferences. You should decide how to respond not ask others to make it convenient for you. Time to assume some personal responsibility not have others do what you wish...

Mingling includes socializing, too - so what's the harm if people have been members for years? Personally, I'm amazed at the post counts and years of membership of some of the people here. I'm brand new but have already met some genuinely helpful people here in the forums... it doesn't have to all be about dating or getting laid, does it?

OP, are your stats correct? You've been a member for over 9 years but this is only your 3rd post?

That doesn't mean anything.
For all you know they signed up and signed in 6 years ago, left the site and never came back, then signed on again when you noticed them online.

Being on here for years doesn't actually mean "being on here" for years.


Then it would be stupid of the website to kick them off.
If "most people" are using your service a certain way, it makes more sense for a business to accommodate them, not get rid of them.
Especially if your business model is based on having as many people as possible to sell to advertisers.


All that would accomplish would be to get rid of "most people."
You think you would have greater success with "most people" gone?
At best that gives less incentive for new people to sign up, and greater incentive to go where all the other people went.

Kicking people off a dating site would only really be effective if there were no available alternatives. Online or off.

Some of us just haven't found what, who we are looking for. In the meantime, I enjoy the forums.

It has evolved into a social site also.
That is why so many have large posting numbers.
If sincere, one tends to make friends.
And makes one wish to chat with others periodically.

Those just here to..score..usually get
what they deserve, too :-)

Hummm and yet you have been here since 2007

This site started off as a Social/Dating site in the first place and has never been deemed just a Dating site ever~~~

Why would you want some people out of the site, it's a free site and anyone can stay as long as they want. We can make choices for each other cos we are all adult here. Please let's get out fact straight before making any drastic opinion.

I sense someone has a case of posterior hurt...

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some of us just hang out here for the hell of it


ok me I mean me

I can't stop laughing ... everyone explained this site so well ... hey its your choice + it is free... I thought maybe he just wanted to start a fight and his way of making new friends

TMommy...

how's it going?

Not too half a**ed...

I think maybe you are talking to some of the scammers on this site
I KNOW there are some real, and VERY nice people here who, much like myself, are here to talk to other good people

so relax, have some fun and you will have a better time on this or ANY of the social sites as, no matter what the site is, you are going to have scammers and others that you wont want to take the time to get to know

Pretty much more of a social site as every one says. As every one said when I was growing up...
Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya.

Lol...