hey every body and nice to meet you all .
I have always liked big beautiful ladies . I can still remember when I was a pre-teen and I saw a big naked woman laying on the ground on a TV commercial , I totally shivered and panicked , later on I knew I am BBW lover .
my ex girl friend is a thick blond girl , and I still have fantasies about her as I would never ever forget our romantic moments ..unluckily we broke up for that she was very demanding ! very needy !
I am happy im talking things out on here . after that relationship I can't picture myself with a girl nextdoors , i prefer big ones , I am looking but I know that it's not easy to find some one who is attractive enough both mentally and physically .

question is : why would I always seek BBWs ,is there any main reason I would love to have sex with them ?
All opinions welcomed ..thank you

Ummmm it's called preference. Some like fat/skinny, short/tall...whatever

Maybe because you bruise easy

That million dollar question can only be answered by you... or a shrink.

if bbw women are your preference then thats really cool, so many men just want a stick thin woman, its nice to read there are guys like you out there.
there are plently of us bbw's out there

We prefer the term SBW

Really? Stick thin? I don't think so. Most people I know prefer somewhere in between.

You like what you like. No need to analyze it. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone you are attracted to.

Could be many reasons.
And it depends on a lot of things. Like if you don't find "average" or "normal" or "thin" or "athletic" women attractive at all.

And it could range anywhere from:
- you may not really find "thick" or "BBW" women more attractive, you find a certain body ratio most attractive. Like their hip to waist ratio falls within a small range and your subconscious mental math wizard has only experienced it with "thick" or "BBW's."

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- you may be extremely insecure about your own looks, and "BBW" or "thick" is something you fear, and being with them is you trying to control your fear.

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- you may be extremely vain, narcissistic, and shallow. Maybe you feel entitled to some kind of worship, you may also deep down resent or hate "thick" or large people. So you go after "thick" or "bbw" women believing they will be more grateful that someone like you would deign to be with them, you use them, then you dump them or passively aggressively cause the relationship to fail i.e. hurt and punish them.

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- maybe they remind you of your mom

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- maybe over time those are the only ones that talk to you, with the least amount of effort

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- maybe you like something else entirely, with "thick" or "bbw" being the most common denominator coincidentally.
Such as youthful appearance. "Fat" people tend to not show wrinkles and can sometimes look babyish.
Or maybe you're kind of submissive and seek out a more powerful person, and you inherently respect someone bigger as having more power.

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- maybe you've been socially trained to simply assume "thick" or "BBW" are bubbly and happy and when you're lonely you are unhappy, so you look for something to fix that.

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- maybe you're lying. Maybe you notice "thick" and "bbw" women tend to be a large (pun not intended) percentage of those online and you're playing the numbers game, looking for right now. So you're posting a psychological game on the forums trying to get one to come chase you.

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- maybe it's part of your DNA. Maybe the "thick" women you are attracted to is your DNA noticing your best potential DNA matches.



Could be one of those, a combination, or many other reasons.

maybe its just the men in my country but its what i experience here

People like what they like. Who cares?

Might like to see that TV commercial you mentioned.

forgive my ignorance but whats the definition of sbw?

I believe that our psychological responses to bonds and lack of bonds growing up molds the 'attractions' we develop

its different for everyone,,,

Skinny beautiful women

maybe we should just say beautiful women as everyone of us is beautiful in our own unique way

That is like asking why Kermit the Frog would marry Miss Piggy.

This is cute, David....

I like marinated tofu...

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