so i like this guy im friends with,i asked him out and he said "ok" but a day later he told me he not sure what he wants.

then i find out he likes somebody else but he wont tell me.he tells me how awsome i am and how great i am.but why did he say yes when i asked him out if hes not ready to date?

i have a job my own car im going to school and i dont cheat.he should be knocking down my door to date me!

whats wrong with me ..or him

well i must say his a loser,,, u dont deserve guy like that.. u deserve better.... i know u find someone nice....

Some guys are just weird like that. Maybe he only likes you as a friend? Good luck.

ok i know.we have established he does

but why did he agree to go out with me in the first place if he didnt like me that way?

i can live with him not likeing me i dont like the fact that he agreed to date me then told me a day later he dont know what he want

ahh forget him find someone else who knows what they want instead of playing boy games

Some guys just don't want to hurt your feelings. They may like you as a friend but never look at you any other way. I would just show him that you are dating material. Have someone send you some flowers in front of him. Or any other obvious sneeky thing just to show him that someone else might me interested. This might just do the trick. Keep your head up though. You will find someone, even if it's not this guy.

hun don't even waste your breath i have had that happen plenty

Maybe he wanted to at first, but decided he wanted to keep the friendship more in case the "dating" didn't work out.

Did U ask him 2 go steady, or just on a date..?

Once you're in the "friend zone", good luck getting out!

no like be b/f and girlfriend

the first week we started work he always already ****ing and dating a girl that already worked there,apprently hes got alot of exes that work at our job

Some people dont know how to express themselves right away, and it take a while for it to register in their head. but it seems that he is too confused. you can do better

Think maybe he is comfortable with the friendship and was just being accomodating. I think he may be a little intimidated by your self assuredness. Read your profile as a complete stranger and you will see what I mean. You tell everyone that you don't need them and won't tolerate things. I'm sure he already knows that.

Hey "Bee", just let him go, U deserve better than dat...

its a lil weird like hes my friend

but i want to smash his face into the ground

You need to work on your anger issues. You are too violent "smash his face into the ground" and "hope satan ass rapes you".

Think about it.

yeah thats for the cheaters and liars,if ya gonna drag ya feet and play game then be gone with yourself

if he already had exes at work that might have been a red flag for you..you said you went out was anything like bf and gf established or was it just two people going out and having a good time ..do you think maybe you read a little more into it ..i use to go out with a girl ..but we were really just friends and no benefits but i still enjoyed her company..just be careful that you dont let him take advantage of you;...if you do you may wind up just another ex ..hes already established a pattern..good luck

i just wanted to know why he said he we can be b/g and g/f turn around and change his mind.

maybe at that point and time the other gal he liked pissed him off or he was just felt lonely and wanted someone and the next day he probably talked to the gal and everything was ok then.