Topic: what are women looking for ?
Gorko64's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:11 PM
You know, I read the first 15 pages or so of this thread and I just couldn't take anymore. How pathetic. I see that there are some of you who simply need to grow up. I looked at some of your ages and then understood why you act and write the way you do. Little wet behind the ears yet maybe?. Life is an experience and always will be. If you are not open to learning from both the good and the bad, you stagnate. There is someone out there for everyone, sometimes it just takes time to meet them. I've been in more than a few relationships in my life, most of them being a year or longer. Sometimes they work out, sometimes they don't. Sometimes you just grow apart. S**t happens. You can't come out with a statement like "what do women want" and expect a simple answer. It does not work like that. We are all individuals, men and women. Everyone has different tastes. Being true to yourself is the most important thing. If you just want to get laid, say so. What's the worst that can happen, they say no? Big deal, life goes on. continue your search and keep your spirits up. There is nothing worse, male or female, than one who lets it show they are jaded! Who ever told you that life would be easy. If this is what you think, it's time to wake up and smell the coffee. Life can be cruel, and some folks are worse than others. Keep the smile on your face and your disappointments in a private place. I have always found that true confidence and a natural sense of humor will carry you far. Everyone wants someone who cares about them. Manners count, and from what I have witnessed in this day and age is that most of the younger generation don't even know what they are. Read these posts and it shows. Lighten up everyone. You don't drop dead just because you don't find that special someone right away. sad Keep seeking and you shall find! Just my opinion. I think I've been around the block a few more times than most that have posted here. G:wink:

Jess642's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:25 PM
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Gorko, how funny.


Half of the posts were tongue in cheek humour, and the other half, were enough to make a person nauseous.



Me? Today I want a massage, and a story read to me, whilst being fed grapes...

Tomorrow I might want a car washer...

A gal can pretend, when she has everything she requires already...laugh laugh laugh

Bobzeaux's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:34 PM
"I read the first 15 pages or so of this thread and I just couldn't take anymore. How pathetic."
If you want to express the idea that you're NOT pathetic, the least you could have done is sit through the entire thread like some of US have been doing.

"I looked at some of your ages and then understood why you act and write the way you do."
Funny. Most 22-year-old males wouldn't act/write like me. They'd either be out partying trying to sleep with as many chicks as possible, or they'd be off killing themselves in a state of horrible depression (speaking in shorthand or leet and in a lower degree of eloquence all the while).

I'm acknowledging that life is not easy, and the best experiences come out of overcoming obstacles. The entire point of this thread is to somehow gain some sort of insight as to how to overcome the most confusing and bewildering obstacle ever since the conception of human culture. Is trying to figure out how to appeal to women REALLY not worth talking about? The "just shut up and suck it up" attitude doesn't help anyone.

"Manners count, and from what I have witnessed in this day and age is that most of the younger generation don't even know what they are. Read these posts and it shows."
And despite that observation, kids all over the world are having sex at younger and younger ages, so what does THAT mean?

Bobzeaux's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:35 PM
"Half of the posts were tongue in cheek humour, and the other half, were enough to make a person nauseous."
And you think just READING them is bad enough. Some of us are LIVING them.... :P

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:50 PM
Relax.

txmama74's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:51 PM
you know, i could use a pina coladadrinker

CaRisLOVE's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:53 PM

you know, i could use a pina coladadrinker


i never tried those before lol

txmama74's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:54 PM
yummydrinker

Jess642's photo
Fri 11/16/07 10:59 PM
Ooohhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!

MIDNIGHT MARGUERITA'S !!!!!


yes please...I want one of those...well hundreds of those...drinker drinker drinker laugh laugh laugh

Jtevans's photo
Fri 11/16/07 11:00 PM
ok first,if SOMEONE read every post in 15 pages,you've got waaaay too much time on your hands.


2nd,sure i might act immature but anyone that knows me knows there's a comedic side to most of my posts.if you don't like what i post,don't read them...simple as that!


3rd,young people are not the only ones that act the way i do.hell my mom's b/f is in his 60's and he makes me look like that most mature person in the world.get to know the people on here before you talk about the way they act and you might find out they act differently in RL than they do on here.

Jess642's photo
Fri 11/16/07 11:02 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Fri 11/16/07 11:02 PM
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Gawd are there rules now about acting mature, and all GROAN UP???


Ok...where's the delete button??? laugh laugh laugh

CaRisLOVE's photo
Fri 11/16/07 11:06 PM
i dunno tha last person who was tryin to put us down i ignore
dont need someone to tell me online how im acting
lol
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Bobzeaux's photo
Sat 11/17/07 01:37 AM
Yeah, you tell 'em, Jtevans. >:D

No margaritas for me, thanks. Just hook me up with a Newcastle and I'm good. *lol*

"dont need someone to tell me online how im acting"
Sorry if you took offense to my comment about your grammar and punctuation earlier btw, CaR. Again, this thread is supposed to be about clarification, and all I wanted was to figure out what you were telling me. :P

txmama74's photo
Sat 11/17/07 08:31 AM
does it really matter at this point what we want, i mean you guys don't really listen anyway....all you hear is:


blah blah blah...do..blah blah blah...you....blah blah blah..want..blah..blah..to....blah blah blah blah..have...blah blah blah ...sex?....blah...blah..blah!




bigsmile

Jtevans's photo
Sat 11/17/07 08:34 AM

does it really matter at this point what we want, i mean you guys don't really listen anyway....all you hear is:


blah blah blah...do..blah blah blah...you....blah blah blah..want..blah..blah..to....blah blah blah blah..have...blah blah blah ...sex?....blah...blah..blah!




bigsmile



who hears all the blah,blah,blah stuff?i just hear sex huh

txmama74's photo
Sat 11/17/07 08:36 AM
bingo!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile

Jtevans's photo
Sat 11/17/07 08:41 AM
i take it i'm the only one that focuses in on the important things in the coversation?huh ohwell

txmama74's photo
Sat 11/17/07 08:44 AM
exactly! so when you guys talk to us...all we hear:

blah blah blah..wash...blah blah blah... the...blah blah blah..dishes....blah blah..for..blah blah..you.. blah blah....tonight?

Puffins1958's photo
Sat 11/17/07 08:52 AM
jrods...

Did you want a list of the qualities??? Believe me...I've made one....

laugh :tongue: laugh

Jtevans's photo
Sat 11/17/07 09:06 AM

exactly! so when you guys talk to us...all we hear:

blah blah blah..wash...blah blah blah... the...blah blah blah..dishes....blah blah..for..blah blah..you.. blah blah....tonight?



pfft...who cares what y'all hear,we're the important ones :tongue: laugh