Ok heres the problem em and my best friend Michelle have been friends for 7 years now....Were had the friendship where we could tell each other anything we went through thick adn thin together.And 3 months ago this guy came into her life adn thats when everything cahnged,we`d make plans to hang out and all of a sudden she couldnt hang out because she had to do something then Id find out she lied to me and was with this guy!!It happened several times where Id sit there ready to cry because I couldnt beilve she was actually doing that to me.And now I feel as though this guy is coming between our friendship and its killing me and I dont want to lose her as a friend but on the other hand I dont like being lied to and used.Somebody please help me
-->Chris

its possible that he's not wanting her to hang with ya .. sucks i know but it happens.. in any case she shouldnt have lied to you .. and i know it is gonna hurt but might be best to give her space and let it be..

well... that is a tough one... because you were her friendship partner, the romantic partner always gets more attention anyway.. i know you said you were best friends for a long time, relationships can change, break friendships, she can't give both of you 100 % there are two men in her life, you are her good friend, and maybe if it doesn't work out between them she will come back to you.

why dont you talk to her about it...that happened to me once

Seems to me that if you've been best friends and could talk about anything, this should be a piece of cake to discuss with her. Let her know exactly how she's making you feel and find out why things are changing. I can only assume that the guy she's dating may get jealous at the idea of her having a male friend. If that's the case...she needs to decide if this new guy is really worth losing a friend over.

1. try to talk to solve this problem

2. **** happens

3. i'm sure there are a lot of woman who don't cheat

4. all the best to you

People change - relationships change. Maybe the new guy is jealous. Wait it out and be patient.

Heres the thing we promised each other no matter what happened wed never let a realationship come between us no matter what happened and I tried talking with her about it already and it got me nowhere. And now im at the point of giving up...Im done tryinh to figure out who my real frinends are I really am

Real friends are friends who stick by you no matter what they are goin thru at the time..... just be patient and she will come around....

don't be discouraged, you can't promise someone a relationship will never come between a friendship, how many of your friends have gotten girlfriends or boyfriends and haven't called you as much? it's life hun, like i said, this may only be temporary, don't give up on your friendship she may not even know she is doing it... ~Maja

Ha ha ha ha ha!!!!! Dude I give up!!!! I can't help you. You got a new problem every day!!!! You are the drama queen!!! Here's your baton and your plaque and your tiara!!!! Ha ha ha ha ha.

"longhairbreaker"
Why dont you stop commenting if you got nothing to say alright!!!!Its really annoying

When two people fall in love, everything fades into the backround. I introduced my best friend to my ex, but, we were still great friends. They fell in love and dropped me like a hot rock! They just want to be alone together and I think they feel guilty about abandoning me. It wasn't necessary. I encouraged them to date. Our romantic relationship was over, but, he promised even though he was taking her out, he and I would still party sometimes. It didn't happen. I would love to be friends with both of them, but, they can't handle it and I am sure that is her doing. Relax. She may still be willing to be a friend, but, may have been given an ultimatim by him. I stopped calling them and e-mailing them within a month of them dropping me. No rear view mirror!!!! Forward only!! Take care.