Topic: serioue relationship
sultanahmad9992's photo
Wed 11/23/16 03:46 AM
is it marriage important for a true love ?

Rooster35's photo
Wed 11/23/16 04:06 AM

is it marriage important for a true love ?



No it's not.
In fact, you have better chances of staying in love if you don't marry.
Marriage used to be great, back when the world used to make sense. Now that everything is upside down and inside out marriage doesn't make much sense unless you plan on giving kids to your "better half" then that's a whole other adventure that has nothing to do with love and everything to do with your mental castration and physical bondage.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Wed 11/23/16 04:11 AM
Commitment, and dedication ARE imperatives, if you want your relationship to be anything more then a moment to moment whim.

That is what marriage symbolizes.

Whether you involve the government and or religious authorities in helping you attend to your understanding of the seriousness of what love actually means, at it's best, or not, is up to you.


no photo
Wed 11/23/16 04:12 AM
Depends on your own beliefs and values.

smithgary92's photo
Wed 11/23/16 06:26 PM
yes

no photo
Wed 11/23/16 06:41 PM
to us in the divorced community marriage could be one thing that will scare us all over again lol

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 11/23/16 06:46 PM


is it marriage important for a true love ?



No it's not.
In fact, you have better chances of staying in love if you don't marry.
Marriage used to be great, back when the world used to make sense. Now that everything is upside down and inside out marriage doesn't make much sense unless you plan on giving kids to your "better half" then that's a whole other adventure that has nothing to do with love and everything to do with your mental castration and physical bondage.


The grapes are sour, too. indifferent

no photo
Wed 11/23/16 06:51 PM
Edited by SimpyComplicated on Wed 11/23/16 06:53 PM
A truly loving nature helps whether married or not

Rooster35's photo
Thu 11/24/16 06:26 AM

A truly loving nature helps whether married or not

I agree. :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 11/24/16 07:17 AM
No, it's the other way round: true love is important for / in a marriage.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 11/24/16 07:19 AM

to us in the divorced community marriage could be one thing that will scare us all over again lol

Could you tell why? Just curious ...
I know most men never want to get married again, women often do (not all).
So I'm curious tongue2

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Thu 11/24/16 08:05 AM
I for one, am not SCARED of marrying again, I am completely averse to it. Marriage has proven to be more of a hindrance to real commitment and bonding in my experience, not to mention that the amount of interference from the government in my life has been extreme.

Maybe it's typical male egotism. I want a mate who stays with me because she wants to, and because she believes in what I believe in about life and honor. Not another person who sees me as some sort of temporary entertainment delivery service/personal butler.

Rooster35's photo
Thu 11/24/16 08:31 AM

I for one, am not SCARED of marrying again, I am completely averse to it. Marriage has proven to be more of a hindrance to real commitment and bonding in my experience, not to mention that the amount of interference from the government in my life has been extreme.

Maybe it's typical male egotism. I want a mate who stays with me because she wants to, and because she believes in what I believe in about life and honor. Not another person who sees me as some sort of temporary entertainment delivery service/personal butler.


:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

no photo
Thu 11/24/16 07:47 PM
is it marriage important for a true love ?

Legally defined marriage? No.
Emotional marriage/pair bonding? Yes.

Ketlams's photo
Fri 11/25/16 12:50 AM
yes it is bse marriage is all about true love its the foundation of marriage if its not based on true love then dats not marriage and it can never last

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 11/25/16 01:28 AM

is it marriage important for a true love ?



I can only say that marriage is important to me and I would marry again. It is that level of commitment that I need from a partner and it agrees with my beliefs, not everyone that finds and lives with their true love wants to marry them, or can marry them if they have never divorced from a previous marriage. Marriage is more a personal choice in my opinion, that both partners need to decide upon and something not to be rushed in to.

trudds's photo
Fri 11/25/16 01:44 AM
to us in the divorced community marriage could be one thing that will scare us all over again lol

Amen to that lol

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 11/25/16 03:21 AM
is it marriage important for a true love ?



"Maybe. Maybe not. But building up an immunity to iocane powder certainly is."

no photo
Fri 11/25/16 04:13 AM
is it marriage important for a true love ?


no photo
Fri 11/25/16 04:14 AM
is it marriage important for a true love ?


nah..true love dont need a contract....