Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater??? What do you think?

well, I don't know what kind guy you are looking for but .. would take my concern for a relationship?

nope .. everyone has a turn or point to change themselves.. but some rarely dont

yes experienced that first hand

Yes i agree. These people are like adrenaline junkies. In it for the thrill. After that there on to the next one. When they are older they try to change, but they have so much karma wating for them. Best to stay away from a two timer.

NO....ALL RESEARCH SAYS NO....ONLY 12% OF MEN ARE PRONE TO CHEAT....SOME GUYS

ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS WHERE THEY ARE NOT GETTING THERE NEEDS MET AND SEE NO OTHER

WAY....THE BIGGEST REASON IS GUYS DO UNDERSTAND WOMEN AND WOMEN DO NOT

UNDERSTAND MEN....WE ARE SO DIFFERENT NOT ONLY PHYSICALLY BUT HORMONALLY AND

EMOTIONALLY...YOU CAN NOT FIX WHAT YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND....WE DO NOT TAKE IN

INFO THE SAME AND WE DO NOT PROCESS IT THE SAME.....THE ANSWER IS TO EDUCATE OUR

SELVES ON HOW THE OTHER SIDE THINKS, FEELS, THERE WANTS AND

NEEDS... EXAMPLE: WOMEN TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT THERE PROBLEMS OR

TALK TO FIND OUT WHAT THE PROBLEM IS......SO THEY CAN LET GO OF IT..!!!!!

IF A GUY TELLS ANOTHER GUY HIS PROBLEM, THE GUY THINKS HE WANTS HIM TO FIX

IT...... SO WHEN SHE STARTS TELL HIM A ABOUT PROBLEMS DURING THE DAY HE THINKS

SHE WANTS HIM TO FIX THEM. WHEN ALL SEE NEEDS IS SOMEONE TO JUST

LISTEN.....NUMBER ONE COMPLAINT ABOUT MEN ''HE DOES NOT LISTEN TO ME''.....

yes..they did it once no problem doing it again believe me..

most men rarely don't.

No that is not true.

true..watching them deal with karma is the best part. karma is a *****! lol

Maybe.
Depends on how you read it.

You can read it like "once an alcoholic always an alcoholic," meaning once you've cheated that's part of your history and something you can't escape and should be aware of as a weakness.


If you read it like "once a cheater, they will always cheat on you, absolutely guaranteed, because they are always looking for ways to cheat on you!" then no, it's not true.

absolutely! it's in their system.

I think most people cheat for a reason..
I don't think too many people are chronic cheaters....so... that's like saying once an alcoholic always an alcoholic... people can change...

I agree with you but .... men understand women?
Men who do are few and far between ...
You may be one of them, but I think generally speaking players are the only ones that -sort of- understand women, and they exploit it.

WELL IT LOOKS LIKE WOMEN DO NOT LISTEN EITHER
.....

thanks for keeping our hopes up..somehow lol

I don't anything applies to everyone.

Some people might be chronic cheaters - it's in their blood, DNA, whatever ...


Other people may have been in a situation, and it's not something they would otherwise do....


I don't really know - I've heard the saying, but I think it's a lot like most stereotypes - there for a reason, but not all inclusive.

i have learned you cannot change a person if he doesn't want to change

Depends how hard you smack them around.

They typically cheat again after a light smacking.

However, severely smacking them into next week will cure them from cheating.

Yes