Crystal Fairy,

Hi, you, well I like how you put it , you put it beautifully please keep posting . Gold Star for you.

SoulfieHere,

Okay, let me ask you this, do you admit women are just as much porn watchers as men?

Dodo_David,

what's up bubby, to be honest I'm currently not dating anyone sure that whoever that may be one day she would mind!

buddy of my now ex hubby

asked me if he could take him to a strip club

I said sure..he can go

he just can never come home again


I have a different view on this one

I tend to believe that it belittles the act of intimacy

between two people that care about each other


it becomes an act of trying to proove to each other

what feats of wonder you can now accomplish

instead of it being about expressing love, passion

and caring for each other

Motowndowntown,


I agree with you 200 percent.

TMommy,

So, can I safety say you for strip clubs & porn? or Not?

No, not even close.
We simply do not require the visual to get the physical.

Exactly.. this thing that women read the stories and get mega turned on, whereas men look at the pictures and get aroused

Personally I find porn quite boring. The only times it was in tha house, was because of a man, and to be honest, I can really do without it.
Being with a man again may be something to look forward to, that possibly including porn again, not so much.

I just don't understand the need of a man to watch it when he has a willing woman around. That's one reason it annoys me, and I actually find it hurtful, disrespectful (to me), and thus very difficult to accept.
If my man wanted to watch porn, period, it would mean I'd have to put up with something that makes me feel uncomfortable and hurt. If it's up to me, porn would not be part of my life. I really don't like it.
Chances are high it would ruin our sex life. If he'd get turned cos of porn, I really don't want him. He can stick it in the grinder for all I care. I want my man to want me for me, not cos of some other woman he's seen up close and too personal.
And if he'd watch it a lot, it would likely be a reason for the relationship to come to an end.