i dont care if i seem desperate anymore....any guys close to lancaster oh 17-22 wanna date.....im not pity seeking just looking for a date....

wow thats painful

hang in there they say theres someone for everyone maybe your someone hasn't seen you yet.

dances around with pink silk panties on her head then runs like hell!!!

lol everyone keeps telling me that....but in all reality all they are saying is "i dont know what to tell you...hang in there and maybe by some slim chance someone may find you and maybe in a 1 in a millin chance they will love you"....lol great

Hey baby cakes! If it helps..I've been single for almost a year, so it happens to the best of us!! It's hard to find someone that's "worth" your time though. I mean, would you want to date a complete idiot that didn't have anything in common with you?

(I don't play well either btw) ***high five***

well at least u managed to make me smile

WOW your only 18 you have your whole life to find that some one for you.

I've been single my whole life and it's pointless to care or not care any more. And yeah I'm in my upper 20's now. But so what.

I guess it's better to have been single and never to have a heart broken vs having a heart broken and crying about it and playing the blues etc.

yeah i know im only 18 but u never know when ur life will end....i lived as a kid and now im ready to move on and find love...i went through bad times as a kid and now im ready to settle down....dont care if 18's my only #

tell me about it

Good then my job is done here. You should change ur name to baby cakes. ;)

y do the amazing guys like u have to be so damned far away

If you say so KLC.

I was just thinking about that too darling...damn amazing guys..

lol

Well in a way having your heart broken can make it sweeter when the next one comes along. You hope its the last one but .... arg.....so many variables in a relationship...

Hang in there bud, I've been through several in my life and that's part of the journey. I have kids now and thats the best part of the journey.

Hate to say it but I think it's better to meet someone outside in some venue...

Get out make freinds.... Tons and Tons of them.... something will happen along your growing path and you will meet someone.

In the mean time you become more well rounded... then you'll be even better off I think whether with or without a relationship.

J

I don't mean to be negative, but what I'm reading here is very troubling to me, and the undertones suggest that these waters run far deeper than the original post would reveal.

As well intentioned as they may be, people who get into relationships for the sake of the relationship tend to do two things: A. They get hurt, and B. They hurt others. And I would be so bold as to suggest that perhaps the desperation for a relationship, any relationship, may not be the problem, but a symptom of an underlying instability.

You'd mentioned "bad times" from your childhood, and methinks this could quite possibly be the root of the problem. My strong suggestion would be to set up a session with a therapist who might be able to address some of these issues and help you to get ready for the real thing when it comes along. And it often does when you least expect it.

Remember, going to therapy doesn't mean you're crazy or that there's anything wrong with you; It means you're taking an active role in your health and working towards a life well lived.

Good luck and best wishes.

first of all a: **** you and b: i have been to therepy....im just ready for a relationship and who are u to tell me otherwise asshole....suggesting therapy....who are u to judge

That was a bit inappropriate. I can see why you struggle. My intention was only to try to help someone who'd reached out for help. Your unhappiness doesn't affect me one bit. I suppose that's not the first dog to bite my hand when I tried to pet it and likely not to be the last. Good luck anyway.

you my guess is u never dealt with what i did....and also u have no idea how it affects ur life...u can go to therapy and put it behind u but it is always there....thank you for trying to help me but sometimes scars are just too deep tp erase....i do take back my previous harsh comments and ask ur forgiveness, but also that u understand my point...good luck to u as well