Good afternoon my good people of mingle2, its a nasty day in the city of " Brotherly Love" today rain up to Monday, what a drag...but I'm here to be your host,. No raindrop don't stop no show.....well, let's get into it. My last forum on " worst dating disasters" was a mega hit I want to thank ya'll for your comments & we even got silly a bit but now I'm bringing the ying & the yang. Now I want to ask my new & current "Vocal Avengers" a new question" What's you favorite or best dating experience" Okay I use myself for an example Okay my best date was with my childhood sweetheart Renique. Back in elementary school I was bust to back then a mixed high school in my city from the ghetto school. I was the new kid, she saw me from the first day she already claimed me as her boyfriend. So I said " Wow...okay, so I guess I have to give you a kiss & let's hold hands to our next class". Fast forward, when I was 12 I was sent to live with my father out west for my high school years, we lost touch, and when I was 17 I came back to Pennsylvania I haven't seen her until I was 19. It was funny, I was invited to my cousin birthday party and there she was...so beautiful, still a sweetheart, we hooked up again. Now that we older , she had 3 kids and at the time I had none, we rekindle our flame and was together again. Our first date I took her to a restaurant called "friendly's" and after that I took her to the movies to see "Titanic". It was a lovely date, how can I describe it ....it was like me being a male Cinderella or in my case Cinderfella. Sometime later we broke up but she was my greatest date and I have more to share. So, tell me what was your Head over stilettos or Nikes experience......

EyeAmYourHost39,

okay, a few years back I dated a beautiful young lady that was then an inspiring R&B/Pop singer, we went dancing, yes I was nice with my drink & my 2 step.....then we went on a horse & carriage ride downtown when she came from New York City. when she kissed me I was cinderfella, when she hugged me her Chanel #5 caught me in her love spell.....no lie folks. America, she had me feeling like I wanted to save the last dance......I didn't want the night to end. she later blew up in her career and now she's a very well known big celebrity today. unfortunately I won't disclose who she is on M2 , due to legal stuff, but I can tell you this. every album she does she always add my name on her thank you credits. She told me in her line of business there haven't been a man that touched her like your ol' boy Corey here......

I dated a woman that completely relaxed around me, and trusted me enough to be absolutely honest with what she was thinking.

Lost was the edge of challenge in tone daring me to judge, or worried about how I'd judge her.

There was a lack of constant analysis. Like when someone speaks and half their focus is on what's coming out of their own mouth, worried it might come out "wrong," and needing to know how to "fix" what they said to make sure the listener interprets it the "right" way.

No blustering or posturing to reinforce image.

Arriving to the point where there was no hesitation in natural thought, word, or action she took in regards to me or around me.

It got to the good taken for granted part where I was part of her life and the thought that I wouldn't be there, or I'd behave in a way that would hurt her, or she had anything to worry about from me because she wasn't sure how I'd react or that she had to try and protect me or protect herself from me, just wasn't in the realm of possibilities.

Seeing all of that, realizing all of that, in a moment, sitting in a car at a green light, saying something and then making out, with her foot kicked over to press the brake pedal so I couldn't drive, her hand on the back of my head, seeing it in her eyes as her face approached, feeling it in her body and complete lack of tension or self awareness, hearing a confident stable and clear voice, tickets and reservations, and schedules, and time forgotten.

That is my favorite or best dating experience.

hmmm,,,

My best date was a guy I met when I went dancing at a club, he waited until I was leaving and had a waitress bring me a non alcoholic drink(he had watched closely enough to know I didnt drink ) and a note with his name and number , she pointed him out and then he walked over and formally introduced himself, said he liked my style and then whispered in my ear that he would love to just hang out someday and do something nice for me,,,,,

that wasn't the date though


I did eventually call him , though I never call guys, and he was a complete gentleman,,,,we planned to spend a day together ,,,he picked me up in the morning and took me to a church sporting event where his brother played on the team, after we met his family and I saw how protective and loving they were of each other, then it was to a movie and dinner,,,, I never had to go in my pocket or open a door and he gave me his jacket to stay warm later in the evening. he gave me the gentlemanly kiss on the cheek when dropping me off

many more dates followed,,,,,,though he did turn out to be too good to be true,, extremely jealous and possessive,,,in fact he is now a cop,,lol

MsHarmony,

What's up girl, well I can truly say he was a perfect gentlemen. I love to hear you had a great time. see this is what I live for , my good people of M2 also have great stories of good dates. I exposed the disasters and now I want to give homage to those like myself had some success even if it did last but you can appreciate those memories.

CireTom,


wow, I like to hear your testimony, everything you mention with wisdom and the experience made me learn a lot about the dating world and how we have certain standards that comes along with dating. good man keep posting your comments

EyeAmYourHost39

okay another good one with me was I was on a coffee & pie luncheon and I dated my boss older daughter.....it went great. I treated her like a queen and we connected well. afterwards I started to think I don't want to get to deep with her because the date was on the faith of my job. it's almost like you don't want insult the cook and you would know what comes after that....!lol. meanwhile, she loved me and it was a nice day. the next week, I'm working all week and then my paycheck....OMG, I opened my envelope and it was extra thousand dollars in it. I asked my boss if this was a mistake and he told me " No, you earned it......my daughter told me how you treated her and you deserve it..." Oh, I can honestly say that was the best coffee & pie I ever had & earned....lol

Hello everybody I have never had a good dating experience on this site. 90% of the women on here are fake and want two things your email and your money not sure why the email. And the other 10% don't know what they want or looking for someone else are they lie about who they are and what they want. But Life Goes On good luck to everybody.

Scott380,

Hello, welcome to my cyber place of residency. I hear your plight about your unsuccessful dating experiences, well let me help you out. From a good man to another, first, hear me for a second..;. okay, first we have to change your attitude about dating. raise your standards on who you want but don't come off stuck up. Having standards is within you. Secondly, Yes its fakery in women as well as men but look at it like 90 percent of women are good and the ten percent is full of well.....
Thirdly, don't stop the party because you out of food.....sort to say. meaning keep searching. Let your higher power bring you a nice lady and he will.

The worst ... who cares? No need to regurgitate unpleasant things in life


The best ... hoping to see him again real soon

CrystalFairy,

lol okay, people request by demand this one here.

Thanks man I'll give it a shot.

Scott388,

You got my support, you can do it. just have a little confidence in yourself and it all work out.!

Well I said it once and I'll say it again this site blows. It's not like my standards are too high or too low it's just this site 99% other users on here or fake scammers me you and two other people are the 1% if any single people out there reading this get out of this site

True enough, so I won't go into details. I haven't done a lot of dating from websites, but here are my best pointers:

1. Never go sight unseen. No matter what the excuse is.

2. Beware of the following phrases:

"love to laugh" - can just as easily cry. Most likely bi-polar.

"a few extra pounds" - look, if you're fat, that's okay - just say it.

"separated" - married, but looking to replace my spouse before I actually leave them.

"Christian" - goes to church, or at least went to church in the past. Not necessarily a Christian. Has possibly never read the bible. Can often manipulate this to their advantage: "I can't do that, I'm a Christian," and then when they do something that they know is morally wrong, "It's okay, I'm forgiven."

Drinks "often" - Beware, with a capital B.

Smokes "Occasionally" - yup, they're a smoker.

Hyeee

a few extra pounds was all i saw as an
option there lol

Scott388,

Hey Buddy, you absolutely right it just funny we have these experiences to look back on now and even laugh about it now....

Scott388,

Hey Buddy, you absolutely right it just funny we have these experiences to look back on now and even laugh about it now....

LewisW123,

Hey, what's up buddy you talk a lot of truth....I guess I can use the advice in my everyday life as well as dating.