even in chat, when they message a woman. why they have to topic or talk about sex? are they really desperate or what? just curious.

Can't say...never have men try to talk sex with me
But wish the women would

Are you sure they are not fake users? Just a thought.

not all.. :)

I guess they want to put it right out there in the open...

And it isn't "all" men..
Most of the "men" that have contacted me has been decent in emails.
I can only think of a couple that wasn't.. they were blocked rather quickly

Most men talk about sex because they are very shy like me and sex is a very important part of life

Hiding behind a screen also provides anonymity and lets men feel assertive when in fact they have difficulty being assertive in person. the internet provides a place for both sexes to pretend and teat others in ways less likely to do in person as they are actually not in real contact just cyber space where all Is permitted and little is monitored and less is direct and honest.....

They are fakes...coz if it is a Real Man, he wouldn't do such a Stupid thing if he really wants to become close, else he ruins it all from the first base...Lol:

^^^...This says it nicely...
A guy with real intentions wont bring up the subject until the relationship reaches a certain level of understanding...
By then you both know what bases are covered...

Testosterone

Nah. Their virginity, instead.

The some Women are just insensitive. I have also learned that many men are very disrespectful on this site. Some are just terrible. But many women are "wow" just great. It is hit and miss.

Nicely said.

..ohhh. I would have put it right out there in the open...
But I was pretty sure you would just cut it off..lol

Well... sometimes a person just has certain needs that they would like to have met... like for instance..
Let's say you enjoy flirting with your lover.. are you enjoying sending very hot erotic text messages to your lover while they're at work... are you just have a incredible high sex drive..
.. or you just enjoy giving pleasure..
WELL... this might be something you want to get out in the open right away..
To any new potential partner....
No use sitting on your hands... to the very last minute, and then telling them look I have thumbs...lol..

Actually, there's a bit of mathematics involved with this, in a way.

Notice that the complaint is about "why most guys are aggressive."

It's important to recognize the dynamics and the structure of things, I think.

In this case, the biggest reason why it appears to you that MOST men behave aggressively, is that you are waiting for men to initiate.

Initiation requires aggressiveness.

Ergo, if you aren't aggressive yourself, the majority of the people who you interact with will be the aggressive ones, making it APPEAR that a majority of men are that way. The less aggressive ones will be invisible to you.

And then there's the venue. Go into a bar famous for people "hooking up," and you are more likely to be approached by men wanting to "hook up," than you would be, say, at a library.

i agree with you.

Well a big part of it has to do with the genetic makeup of men and their hormones. Then you have society showing men to be the dominant one, so you get guys who go too fast in a convo. I prefer to get to know the girl and if i feel a vibe then perhaps I will throw out a sexual related comment. If the guys were actually smart, they'd know a girl is more likely to send sexual pics, or whatever it may be, but AFTER the girl trusts him!

hmm. little more clear to me.
so are you agree that most guys like you is aggressive?
and its ok for u to show that feeling in woman that you just met only in site?

i hope so.