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Actually, there's a bit of mathematics involved with this, in a way. Notice that the complaint is about "why most guys are aggressive." It's important to recognize the dynamics and the structure of things, I think. In this case, the biggest reason why it appears to you that MOST men behave aggressively, is that you are waiting for men to initiate. Initiation requires aggressiveness. Ergo, if you aren't aggressive yourself, the majority of the people who you interact with will be the aggressive ones, making it APPEAR that a majority of men are that way. The less aggressive ones will be invisible to you. And then there's the venue. Go into a bar famous for people "hooking up," and you are more likely to be approached by men wanting to "hook up," than you would be, say, at a library. I have never read so much bullcit in all my life. Quote The less agressive ones will appear invisible to you Unquote Sorry mate, this is not the jungle or some video game. |
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Actually, there's a bit of mathematics involved with this, in a way.
Notice that the complaint is about "why most guys are aggressive." It's important to recognize the dynamics and the structure of things, I think. In this case, the biggest reason why it appears to you that MOST men behave aggressively, is that you are waiting for men to initiate. Initiation requires aggressiveness. Ergo, if you aren't aggressive yourself, the majority of the people who you interact with will be the aggressive ones, making it APPEAR that a majority of men are that way. The less aggressive ones will be invisible to you. And then there's the venue. Go into a bar famous for people "hooking up," and you are more likely to be approached by men wanting to "hook up," than you would be, say, at a library. hmm. little more clear to me. so are you agree that most guys like you is aggressive? and its ok for u to show that feeling in woman that you just met only in site? No, I'm simply saying that aggression gets a person noticed more readily than not being aggressive does. If you do the looking and initiating yourself, you are likely to find slightly fewer aggressive people. And if you do your searching in places where the aggressive people aren't "hunting," you will run across fewer of them. |
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Actually, there's a bit of mathematics involved with this, in a way. Notice that the complaint is about "why most guys are aggressive." It's important to recognize the dynamics and the structure of things, I think. In this case, the biggest reason why it appears to you that MOST men behave aggressively, is that you are waiting for men to initiate. Initiation requires aggressiveness. Ergo, if you aren't aggressive yourself, the majority of the people who you interact with will be the aggressive ones, making it APPEAR that a majority of men are that way. The less aggressive ones will be invisible to you. And then there's the venue. Go into a bar famous for people "hooking up," and you are more likely to be approached by men wanting to "hook up," than you would be, say, at a library. I have never read so much bullcit in all my life. Quote The less agressive ones will appear invisible to you Unquote Sorry mate, this is not the jungle or some video game. So...you think that people who do not initiate contact through the double blind medium of the internet, will nevertheless know each other exist? Through magic perhaps? |
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So I've been going about this all wrong. No more mister nice guy.
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no more Mr. Clean?
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I will never change. I was brought up to respect people so I guess I will stay Mr clean
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Most men talk about sex because they are very shy like me and sex is a very important part of life |
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Most men talk about sex because they are very shy like me and sex is a very important part of life |
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There are aggressive men and non aggressive depends on every individual. Real men don't disrespect women, their approach is with the right intention , honest and if a bit aggressive sometimes by being straight forward of what they want, they don't do or say things that would be demeaning to a woman.
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Because they have their nuts hanging outside their bodies. LOL.
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