OK so I figuredI owed some people an apology on here, mainly Justyn. but anyway I get a call from you know who saying that she is borrowing money to put in the account that we share still untill I am able to get home again and close that account out. For some ungodly reason I just broke down, don't know why, I am usualy pretty solid about these kinds of things. I have not cried in years. Well since my son was born anyway and he is 13 now.

My question is this. Is it normal for it too just hit one day and you have a breakdown and dont wanna do crap but sit and think? Is it normal for a guy to cry like that.

AND BEFORE YOU NOMINATE I AM PITY SEEKING kiss my toosh. I just don't understand wth is going on, I think I know what a woman feels like when she enters the change of life.

On a more happy note I did get a speeding ticket and a HOS violation today. Only cost me $195.00

The last time I knew men were humans too............so who is to say that a man is not allowed to break down and cry........we all have bad and good days......its takes a mature person to post an apology and admit that he too can makes mistakes...........so heres a hug (((((((((BEARBAIT)))))))))

Ok but when this first happend when she told me she found someone else I had the attitude of what is is and what will be will be, didnt really cry. I was kind of pissed but thats it, Is it normal too have a late reaction to that sort of thing. I just dont wanna think I am having a crazy period and visit athens ohio

(((((Bear))))))
Yep! It's normal, it's good for the soul..

its got a 2/4 vote already..

Its normal to grieve over a broken relationship............your allowed to do that.........and sometimes it takes time before it hits..............

Oh well dont matter, they can vote now, I got my answer

Nope 2/5 I just voted to keep it...

Bear, it takes a real person to apologise..

It takes a real person, to feel...and you are real.

Hey I think it takes a heck of a man to admit he cryed. Nothing wrong with that. Just goes to show that men do have feelings too. Hope things get better for you.

hate to sound stupid, but what's a HOS?

Hours Of Service log book violation

Bear that sounds normal to me. Happens to everyone at some point.

its normal an healthy once in a while lets off steam an pressure i think i just dont like doing the cry thing in public

Bear, I think you are pretty normal. I think men have delayed emotional reaction to things that affect them. We blow things off and then later it comes back and hits us hard.

In your case I don't think its "pity me" ...you have a genuine situation where it is finally catching up with you emotionally. It is not going to be easier either...stay the bubbly person that you are and you will be fine

Maybe you need to borrow digger's red slippers....might cheer you up BUT, BUT if you come back here and tell us the sam story over and over next year we will definately kick your a-ss haha then you will have something to cry for l

Tears are normal for anyone who has feelings and emotions, so if you cried, you can now join the club!....nah..you were in it before now, along side the rest of us. Things will get better!

yeah hun its normal...everyone has the right to cry even men..we all have feelings and we all have a heart full of emotions...trust me when my now ex hubby left me for another woman i cried for days...weeks and sometime still can...and its been along time now....somethings we have to deal with slowly and when we can...no worries hun...your normal by all means....

I still hate the snapperhead idiots that come on sometimes and I will continue too flame them. And just to be clear I will never feel guilty of what I say about them

Hang in there Bearbait. Sometimes something out of nowhere will initiate a trigger that brings out all the jumbled feelings you try to keep under control. This happened to me last year. I would be standing at the sink doing dishes or something really mundane, and just burst out in tears.

Bear, it's perfectly normal. There are some guys who hang onto archaic beliefs about men not expressing emotions, blah blah blah, but those guys are all my dad's age and will be dead soon anyway.

Frankly, I'd be more worried about the mental state of a guy who never did cry. Because there's something a little scary going on with that....