Topic: Please Helpp Me
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Thu 11/08/07 12:26 PM
No clue??? All the clues are there for you to see with your very own eyes!!!You asked...we answer!!:smile:

ladybugdi's photo
Thu 11/08/07 12:26 PM
she is right, your instincts are probably right on target.ohwell

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Thu 11/08/07 12:29 PM
I know that and thats whats killin me are my instinct because I know damn well if I confront him "deny" but juss coming home 12-1 o`clock in the morning and another car is in my driveway im questioning it nad then the way he flipsoutt if I touch is cellphone what so ever

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Thu 11/08/07 12:31 PM
lol@hawaiigurl...my thoughts exeactleyflowerforyou

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Thu 11/08/07 12:31 PM
thank you Sassy!!flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 11/08/07 12:35 PM
So once again today he is an hour late home from work like its been for the past 3 days straight...

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Thu 11/08/07 12:43 PM
It sounds like you already have the answer to your question. Now it's up to you to decide what you're going to do about it. It's hard to end relationships when you care about the other person, but the longer you stay the harder it will be. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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Thu 11/08/07 12:58 PM
You can always move back in with your parents and listen to them harp on you about getting a job?

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Thu 11/08/07 12:58 PM
Ya bro it does sound like he's doin something behind your back. I've had a lot of experience with cheaters and let me tell ya, the one's that flip out if you even bring it up are usually the one's who are doing the cheating. I could be wrong of course. Especially if everything's being erased in his phone...that's just ridiculous. Pay attention to those red flags man, they don't just show up on there own ;)

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Thu 11/08/07 01:02 PM
No. Sorry that was last months problem you had. My badd. Um uh time to move on? He has. Just without you. Hey wasn't this a 'will and grace' episode? Dude you funnin with us?

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Thu 11/08/07 01:44 PM
LHB...laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 11/08/07 02:00 PM
Hon, I have a clue. I've been there. Like I said, if I were you, I'd tell him I'll be home in a few hours....run some errands or somethin'...then when you're about 15 minutes from being home, call him and say you'll be home in an hour. If it doesn't work, keep trying new things. If worst comes to worst, set up a camera in the house. It's a little overboard but hey, if it's driving you crazy and you NEED to know, what's there to lose? Good luck with everything. Hope all turns out well. if you need to talk, just message me! flowerforyou

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Thu 11/08/07 02:02 PM
If you wanna spy...and I know damn well if it was my man doin' this to me...I would. Maybe have a friend take you to his work (in their car...a car he wouldnt recognize) and follow him. I mean, if it's bugging you THAT much...give it a try!

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Thu 11/08/07 02:06 PM
I agree with dchatwin. True. Very true. Kudos. drinker

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Thu 11/08/07 02:14 PM
Ughh he was supposed to be home from work awhile ago and he still aint home yett!!!!And he isnt picking up his cellphone and hes got my car today

Lied2TimedSweetie's photo
Thu 11/08/07 02:15 PM
So call from a blocked number. or is he smart enough to not pick up a blocked call?

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Thu 11/08/07 02:19 PM
He wont ck up blocked calls ever....And now im pissed because he has my car

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Thu 11/08/07 02:20 PM
alright lets start here.... you say hes cheating yet you are on here with a profile stating you are looking for someone....

ok now ot my next point.. any relationship needs to be based on trust.. if you dont trust him there is no relationship so let it go

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Thu 11/08/07 02:21 PM
I juss never cahnged my page ok first of al!!!!sloiderfromamerica im not letting it go I got our apartment I bought him the car he drives now....

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Thu 11/08/07 02:24 PM
I guess my main point is if you dont trust him thats not going to be a great relationship in hte first place