The question is, what are you thinking about while you are being romantic, intimate or while making love with your partner? Do you get lost in the moment? Or are you fantasizing? Picturing your favorite celeb? What?

Lost in the moment for sure, if I have to fantasize about someone else then you are not going to find me being intimate with them...

thinking how good going deeper and deeper feels.. then get lost in the moment

Thinking about how the other is making me feel, feeling the passion exploding between the two of us, enjoying the moment for all it's worth knowing nobody else makes me feel this way. And in appreciation thinking about how I can make he feel the same intense emotional feeling burning in her veins as well.

Definitely lost in the moment of sharing an overwhelming feeling of excitement, desire and love as you look into each other's eyes, skin to skin feeling the heat that burns in every inch of your fiber and about to explode in the ecstacy of love, with the rapture and feeling of eternal bliss like you were transported to heaven ....how can you ever fantasize of another man or favorite celeb when all you could see as you gaze into your lover's eyes is the depth of his soul, the love and passion....... I am thinking of heaven

Golf

I think about my neighbours dog...& his cat.
What is it that u think about?

I am thinking about my partner's reactions to "the moment"!! Are her eyes rolling back in her head, are parts of her body becoming aroused, is she showing pleasure by moaning and groaning, and finally, I am thinking about the beautiful sight I am viewing from feet to head!!

Don't men entertain thoughts of turtles, or turnips or anything random or lame like that to keep themselves from exploding prematurely?

I tried to ring a premature ejaculation advice line once, I got as far as 0845

Men that aren't gay, I can't speak for them because I'm not one of them, think about all the hot chicks they have viewed lately.

Men are extremely visual and instincts push them to mate with as many women as possible.

That's why porn is so popular.

Women, on the other hand, are more mentally focused.

I have purchased many sexy thriller books for past girlfriends because it cut down on the warm up time required.

Depends on the partner.
Depends on my mood.
Depends on the time of day.
Depends on what else is going on.


IME "lost in the moment" = "wallowing in brain chemicals due to triggered emotional responses like a heroin addict."

Sometimes I can get lost in the moment.

Most of the women I date don't get totally lost in the moment themselves requiring me to have some kind of a functioning brain and decision making capacity at all times in order to adequately keep up and effectively communicate with them.

IME dating women that totally "get lost in the moment" means I need to avoid getting lost in the moment to any degree because they tend to make really bad decisions, and be completely unaware of the consequences and actions that stem from their losing themselves.

Like uncontrollable bawling during/after sex, kicking over the dozen lit candles underneath the gauzy bed drape they thought was a good idea, trying to climb over a wobbly table because it seemed like the romantic thing to do at the time.

Getting totally "lost in the moment" is little different than a 4 year old telling mom "I lost track of time."

Someone has to be the adult. Otherwise you end up accidentally stabbed, set on fire, pregnant on the first date, or with matching irizumi back tattoos.

So, if I'm dating a woman that doesn't get lost in the moment, that allows me greater leeway in getting lost in the moment and something they may actually want, enjoying their partners joy.

If I'm dating a woman that allows themselves to get lost in the moment a little bit, then so can I to match them.

If I'm dating a woman that gets lost in the moment, then that means it's a bad idea for me to do so.

That's personal. I'm not sharing it here.

I am wondering if his daddy is less vocal, has more money & a higher IQ? Oh woa is me! * Stay tuned for the next exciting episode of 'Sassy's Sex Scandal' .... Popcorn & kittens are available in the lobby *

The question is in the wrong tense.

If I could answer what I think about while I am "being intimate" with my partner, I wouldn't need to have a presence on a dating site.

How silly.

I'll admit it, most of the time I fantasize that she is with some hunky movie star that knows how to satisfy her. That way she won't have to go to bed disappointed.

Oh Lordy... Joe...

Wait we are supposed to be thinking at that moment..

I didn't get the memo.. So Ummm I don't think at all when I am with him...
I am too busy feeling.

And then wot? She smacked you around the head for being on the phone? That sure as heck would've stopped your premature eruption!
I gotta remember that ... If he's about to come, smack him 'round the head.
Thank you Joe, great advice!!

I'm feeling, sensing, enjoying. Absorbed in the moment and him.