If.your having any doubts then you're probably not ready.. I would just go back to dating each other..for now...
But in. The meantime if you're looking for a night life lover..wink wink...lol..jk.

Just go through with the marriage to get to the other country.

Then after the required time, divorce, and become a citizen of that country.

That's how it works folks.

I have been through this same thing,,,,its very difficult,, figuring who will leave their culture and family and having the funds to qualify for immigration,,,,


I dont advise it unless you really know each other well and have set a workable plan to decide where your mutual home will be

I'm a homebody so I have no good advice.

I think that what you have now are mere 'feeling's'.Maturity means that we should not always go with our feelings,but with our hearts. True love is of the heart!! True Love is sacrificial. If returning to your previous nightlife threatens your present relationship, then give it up, stay strong with the decision---since you love him and the relationship is very important to you. Stepping into something new means that you are stepping out of the old.When you are married eventually,he may not be around all year round due to work or business,even if you live in the same country. Because there are atimes things might take couples apart.At such times,the discipline learnt now will sustain you.
Further,decide with him where to live after the marriage given that you are engaged to be married.
Finally, marry and start a family. No need for protracted engagement.